It's clear that we have been making mistakes in our approach to parenting.

At this stage, we have several alternatives:

• We can accept the sad situation
• We can complain
• We can point to specific problems and offer logical, new, and better suggestions to improve them

The information prsented here is based on experience, counseling of families and individuals, readnig, studying these issues on the Internet, and discussions on the Jewish Parenting forum. These methods have worked for others. Your feedback is welcome.

Although you may use the information presented in this website, please keep in mind that it is copyrighted. Do not copy it. It is the basis for a forthcoming book. It was placed on the Web so that you do not have to wait for the publication of the book - but please don't abuse this privilege.

This information is also used in the author's own classes on the subject, as you can tell from the pink rows at the bottom of each page. Although it may not be copied for any other classes, you may refer your own students to this website and to these exercises.