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Your child may want to reconcile with you after he has rebelled. This section will discuss the various ramifications of his decision.

We will only discuss the case of the child's desire to return home. The discussion in this section does not apply when the child is brought home against his will by his parents or by other authorities.

A child who returns home must not be given the feeling that it was worth leaving or that he has accomplished any of his objectives by leaving. It is very important for the parents to be in full control of the situation.

The child must realize various points:

• He has done wrong
• His action was not acceptable
• He is expected to demonstrate positive behavior in the future

You must also clarify that he has some responsibilities:

• He must show you proper respect at all times in the future
• He will not achieve any benefits or rights by running away
• You will never chase him or beg him to return after he leaves home

You will not be able to accomplish this goal without sorting out your own feelings about your child.

• Why do you want to run after the child?
  • Is it because you want to prevent public rejection?
  • Are you afraid of accusations that you are a poor parent?
  • Are you afraid of other accusations?
• Have you considered the long and short term results of your efforts?
• Is it important for you to defend yourself against public accusations?
• Is it important for you to respond to your child's behavior?
• Is it important for you to respond to your child's defensiveness?
• Is it important for you to educate your child in proper procedures or behavior?

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