Human beings The procedure described in this section will offer a long-term benefit.
A break between the parents and the children is not irreversible. If the parents are in control of the situation despite the rebellion, then the ultimate reconciliation with the parents will be more successful. Granted, the rebellious child may not apologize or acknowledge that he has done wrong. However, when he matures or grows older, he may need a home to which he can return.
Parents need to understand the situation from the child's point of view. It would do well to imagine what your child is likely to do at a future point in time.
The following ideal circumstances may take place:
It takes a pair of very strong, understanding, loving, and considerate parents to allow their beloved but rebellious child enough rope.
It is to be hoped that you will never need the guidance offered in this section. However, it is important to realize that the best solution is not necessarily the same as your gut reaction.
are the only creatures on Earth
that allow their children
to come back home.
-Bill Cosby
The child's point of view
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