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The Longer Wait

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It is often necessary to wait and to stick out the difficult time until it passes.

There are many times in which a family, an organization, an institution, or another body goes through a difficult time in which you are troubled.

You may be tempted to leave at that time because of the difficulties.

Before leaving consult with somebody who understands you and with whom you are close. It may not be a good idea to leave yet.

Sometimes the difficult issues pass after a while and things improve. You just have to wait and if they pass then you will be back and you will be in a better position, having greater seniority, and the difficult things disappeared, they went away and you are able to continue your life in the best possible way.

Even if you do leave after things get better, then you can leave with your head up high instead of leaving as a failure because of the problems.

Do not rush to leave. Do not give up something good that was once going well as soon as there are problems. Be patient. See if you can work it out. See if you can resolve the problems.

And more important see if time will do its thing.

If you wait and those problems are in the past, they may not be as outstanding, although they won't be forgotten, they might be bearable.

And that may be much easier than starting anew and afresh.

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