Dear Father: I am a practicing Catholic who is finding it
more and more difficult
to remain one. First of all, the Pope seems bound to
launch an international
hate campaign against homosexuals. Many, many homosexuals
live in long term
relationships based upon respect, dignity, high moral
standards, fidelity and
love. I know people who have raised children from the
streets and none of these
children that I know of have become homosexuals or other
"deviants". I see
nothing wrong with the full rights given through domestic
partnership laws. They
were much needed. Jesus didn't create us to hate anyone.
The catholic church as
we know it now is getting just like the evangelical
churches on TV, practicing
and promoting HATE of one minority. Could some of this be
used to deflect attention
to all the pedophile priests and the crimes against them.
At least in this case
Jesus was very clear in the New Testament as to what would
be better for those who
harm the "little ones". Just maybe He would think the same
thing of the Church and
its hate of homosexuals. In the past I have seen good
people driven to suicide,
alcoholism and drugs due to the guilt placed on them by the
Church. I am suffering
deeply trying to fathom out this dilemma and saying my
rosary every night isn't
helping at this point. M. Smith (and that is my real last
name).
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Dear Maryellen,
My name is J______ and I am a homosexual member of Father
Bloom's parish. He has given his support to the group
Courage, a chastity support group, and I am so grateful for
that because this group has, at the risk of sounding
dramatic, changed my life.
I tell you this because I want to be a witness to you.
There is no hatred of homosexuals in Father Bloom or the
Pope. The Church exists to lead people to salvation
through Jesus Christ, and part of that is making known how
God wants us to live our lives. Because I say that
something is immoral does not mean that I hate people that
do that thing anyway.
I know from personal experience how difficult it is to
accept the Church's teaching on homosexuality. I was 38
years old before I could fully accept it. But I can tell
you that accepting it and learning to live in accordance
with it has been so powerful for me. It has taught me to
rely on Our Lord and blessed me in many ways in my personal
dealings with other people, both Christians and
non-Christians.
I would like to dialog with you on this issue. We
Christians need to be united in love, and sometimes mutual
understanding has to come first. I hear some of the
issues you are raising, and I have struggled with some of
them myself. If you are willing, perhaps a dialog with me
or others in our Courage group would be helpful for all of
us.
Peace,
J_______
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