Hundreds of years ago in England, many children dressed up as adults on Valentine's Day. They went from home to home singing: Curl your locks as I do mine--- Two before and three behind. Good morning to you, valentine. In the Middle Ages, young men and women drew names from a bowl to see who their valentines would be. They would wear these names on their sleeves for one week. Hence the well known saying, "To wear you heart on your sleeve." In the Middle Ages, people believed that the first unmarried person of the opposite sex you met on the morning of St. Valentine's Day would become your spouse. In Wales wooden love spoons were carved and given as gifts on February 14th. Hearts, keys and keyholes were favorite decorations on the spoons. The decoration meant, "You unlock my heart!"
Another British folk belief was that to insure a dream of your husband to be was to place bay leaves sprinkled with rose water on your pillows on St. Valentine's Day Eve and recite this little prayer: In dreams, let me my true love see. Some people used to believe that if a woman saw a robin flying overhead on Valentine's Day, it meant she would marry a sailor. If she saw a sparrow, she would marry a poor man and be very happy. If she saw a goldfinch, she would marry a millionaire.
In Victorian times it was considered
bad luck to sign a Valentine's Day card.
During the Civil War valentines for the soldiers and their sweethearts often depicted lovers parting or a tent with flaps that opened to reveal a soldier. These were called "windows." In times of peace the "window" would be a church door, opening on a bride and groom. Another Civil War valentine novelty was for the card to have a place for the sender to place a lock of hair.
In some countries, a young woman may receive a gift of clothing from a young man. If she keeps the gift, it means she will marry him.
In Japan, girls give Valentine's Day chocolates to boys.
If you are awakened by a kiss on Valentine's day you will have good luck.
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