WEST VIRGINIA GRANDPARENTS - DOMESTIC VIOLENCE


DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

"DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS NOT JUST A WOMAN THING"

1-800-799-7233 ~ 1-800-787-3224 (tdd) Emergencies call 911

MEN ARE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IF YOU ARE A VICTIM YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

Dads Against Discrimination of West Virginia 304-346-2698

CHILDREN ARE THE SILENT VICTIMS. THEY HAVE NO VOICE, NO CHOICE ONLY FEAR "Child abuse and neglect cases must be recognized as being among the highest priority for the courts' attention. Unjustified procedural delays wreak havoc on a child's development, stability and security." Syllabus Point 1, in part, In Interest of Carlita B., 185 W.Va. 613, 408 S.E.2d 365 (1991).
'CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY ARE TAUGHT. WHAT ARE YOU TEACHING YOUR CHILD?" Children and Domestic Violence"~

YOU CAN NOT MEASURE THE PAIN BUT IT COST THE TAX PAYERS OUR THIS COUNTRY OVER

$15 BILLION A YEAR

IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS REGARDING THE SUBJECTS BELOW PLEASE CLICK ON

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(1) RESPECT METER ~

How do you know if you are in a hurtful relationship?

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(2)TIP ON AVOIDING BAD RELATIONSHIPS ~

Be careful think twice about going out with someone who:

"CONTROLS YOUR TIME, TRAVEL, JEALOUSY AND THINKS CONTROL OVER YOU IS LOVE OR TRIES TO ISOLATES YOU FROM YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS
if you have any questions about your relationship.

!!!!!!!IMPORTANT!!!!!!

PLEASE READ ON

(3)EVERY 15 DAYS IN WEST VIRGINIA

THERE IS A DOMESTIC HOMOCIDE

ONE IN EVERY 3 HOMOCIDES IN WV

IS RELATED TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HAS RISEN 28% IN

THE PAST 2 YEARS IN WV.

BATTERED WOMEN:

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*Less than every 15 seconds a woman is battered.

*2 to 4 million women are battered by their spouse or intimate parnter per year. 20% of them are seiously or fatally injured.

*Women have a 9 times better chance of being asulted at home than on the street.

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SIGNS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
*Domestic violence towards women exceeds the number of women raped, mugged and in automobile accidents combined.

*In the United States there are 38,000 animal shelters. That is three times the number of battered women's shelters. (Do we have a values and funding problem here?) *Battering of women is the cause of:

40,000 doctor visits per year

30,000 hospital emergency room visits per year

100,000 total days of hospitalization per year

* The battering of pregnant women is the number one cause of birth defects. It out numbers all of the medical reasons for birth defects combined. * One third of domestic violence is done by professionals (doctors, psychologists, etc.) *Domestic violence is the reason for the ending of 22% of middle class marriages. *Domestic violence is the most under-reported crime in the US. *Between 1967 and 1973 (during the Vietnam war), 39,000 women and children were killed due to the war in Vietnam. Nearly half that number (17,500) of women and children were killed in the United States.

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* ONE IN THREE female homicides were slain by intimate or ex-intimate partners.

WHY DON'T BATTERED WOMEN LEAVE? (I've received comments on these statistics, saying I shouldn't discourage women. This is not here to discourage women, it's here to inform EVERYONE OF THESE PROBLESM.) * WOMEN WHO LEAVE BATTERERS ARE 75% more LIKELY OF BEING KILLED BY THE BATTERER.

* THEY WON'T HAVE SUPPORT: WOMEN AND CHILDREN FLEEING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AT HOME MAKE UP 36-60% OF ALL HOMELESS WOMEN AND CHILDREN.

* IN THE MAJORITY OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, THE FIRST INCIDENCE OF VIOLENCE OCCURS YEARS INTO THE RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE.

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< COMMON MYTHS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS: ~ True or False Quiz

WHAT IS DATING VIOLENCE ~
The physical, sexual, emotional and/or verbal abuse of one partner by the other partner.

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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOT LINE

1-800-799-7233

"LEGAL TERMS"
"Dads Against Discrimination"~
"Trust betrayed"~ "Children of Divorce"~
Children and Domestic Violence"~
"WV Grandparents"

Examples of How a Partner Tries to Gain Power and Control in a Dating relationship~

The Cycle of Violence~

Possible Effects of Dating Violence on the Victim~

If you are in a bad relationship~

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Develop a Safety Plan - Deciding Whether or Not to go on a Date, Going on the Date.

What can I do~

For More Information contact the statewide domestic violence prevention office:

Links to other sites on the Web

Children of Domestic Violence
The Bill of Rights of Children
WV GRANDPARENTS
Divorce~Custody~Child Support
Parents of Adult Drug Addicts

SIGNS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

COMMON MYTHS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS < >

True or False

(1) Girls like guys who take charge on a date True or False

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