CRISIS SURVIVAL STRATEGIES:
 

 
      A way to remember these skills is to think of soothing each of your 
                                             FIVE SENSES

 
 
 
With Vision:

Buy one beautiful flower, make one space in a room pretty; light a candle and
watch the flame. Set a pretty place at the table, using your best things, for a meal. Go to a museum with beautiful art. Go sit in the lobby of a beautiful old hotel. Look at nature around you. Fix your nails so they look pretty. Look at beautiful pictures in a book. Bo to a ballet or other dance performance, or watch one on TV. Be mindful of each sight that passes in front of you, not lingering on any.
 

With Hearing:

Listen to beautiful or soothing music, or to invigorating and exciting music. Pat attention to sounds of nature (waves, birds, rainfall, leaves rustling). Sing to your favorite songs. Hum a soothing tune. Learn to play an instrument. Call 800 or other information numbers to her a human voice. Be mindful of any sounds that come your way, letting them go in one ear and out the other.
 

With Smell:

Use your favorite perfume or lotions, or try them on in the stores; spray fragrance in the air; light a scented candle. Put lemon oil on your furniture. Put potpourri in a bowl in your room. Boil cinnamon; bake cookies, cake, or bread. Smell the roses. Walk in a wooded area and mindfully breathe in the fresh smells of nature.


With Taste:

Have a good meal; have a favorite soothing drink such as herbal tea or hot chocolate (no alcohol); treat yourself to a dessert. Put whipped cream on your coffee. Sample flavors in an ice cream store. Suck on a piece of peppermint candy. Chew your favorite gum. Get a little bit of a special food you don't usually spend the money on, such as fresh-squeezed orange juice. Really taste the food you eat; eat one thing mindfully.
 

With Touch:

Take a bubble bath; put clean sheets on the bed. Pet your dog or cat. Have a
massage; soak your feet. Put creamy lotion on your whole body. Put a cold 
compress on your forehead. Sink into a really comfortable chair in your home, or find one in a luxurious hotel lobby. Put on a silky blouse, dress or scarf. Try on fur-lined gloves or fur coats in a department store. Brush your hair for a long time. Hug someone. Experience whatever you are touching; notice touch that is soothing.

*Once again these are only suggestions, 
should you feel someone needs , 
 help, get them help immediately. NEVER try tohelp someone alone*