The angels want us to know that we don't have to forget in order to forgive. Instead, they urge us to release our attachment to what has been done to us and to increase our awareness so that we don't allow it to happen again. Of course, because forgiveness always involves the release of the energy-draining emotions of anger, hurt, and revenge, it is ultimately for our own benefit.
When we hope for a positive response from someone who has hurt us, we risk further attaching ourselves to them. When we truly practice forgiveness, we simply let go -- of our indignation, of the other person, even of our desire to control the situation. In so doing, we join the divine cleanup brigade, helping the angels to keep our lives free of the litter of bitterness and the sludge of grudge so that a clear river of happiness and peace can flow through us.
Think of a hurt you have experienced that seems to plague you. Ask the angels to help you release your attachment to being right, and to help you forgive this person and move on. If you don't feel immediately forgiving, don't worry. Just let go, and let the angels do the rest.
Forgiveness is the surest route to the inner peace the angels want for us.
Last updated on 12/24/06 2:40 AM