MISS TEEN THAI STYLE


Name MIW Age: 19 
Code T115C1313
165 cm tall, 45 kg weigh.
SINGLE AND NO CHILDREN.


I am healthy. I don't smoke and drink sometimes only little.I ws born on Nov 22 in Nakronratchasima province. I have 3 older brothers and one older sister. I am the youngest child in my family. I am currently studying for A diploma's degree in Accounting. I actually like Arts better. I will finish my education in March this year and I will probably continue my study for a Bachelor's degree. I can speak English only little.

I am generous, friendly, faithful, choosy, open minded, patient, good mixer, easy going, honest, sincere, romantic, kind, well-mannered, talkative sometimes. I like nature, travel, photography, gardening, cooking, cleaning, shopping, arts, T.V, painting & drawing.








I am seeking a lifetime partner/soul mate age around 20-40. I would like to have my own child who is half Thai-half foreigner when I get married. I live either in Thailand or Foreign country. A man of my dream should be kind, caring, sincere. A nice man with averge looks and financially secure. If you are still in your country, I like to be contacted by correspondence and learn more about each other before marriage.


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WHY THAI LADIES LIKE FOREIGN MEN



This is one of the questions we ask our Thai ladies on the application form when they come to join our club.

The ladies give us many reasons. Here is a sampling of them.

  • Many ladies said they themselves like foreigners both physically and mentally.
  • Some of them said they feel that most foreigners are more sincere, responsible, mature and faithful than many Thai men.
  • Some of our ladies said they have seen their Thai girl friends whose husbands are European or American and they are very happy together. Their husbands are caring, responsible, family loving and their children are very cute.
  • Another lady said she would like to have a warm family with a nice Caucasian gentleman and share the rest of her life with him in his country or anywhere her husband may wish to live.
  • One lady said she wished to have a better life and have someone in her life with whom she can share her thoughts, opinions, happiness, sadness, bad times and good times.
  • The response from this lady was she would like to work aboard (continue her studies oversea or practice her English), and if she can find MR.RIGHT who loves and is sincere to her and the chemistry is right, then she is very happy to marry him and become his lifetime mate.

" THANK YOU"


-----Original Message-----
From: Brian King xxxxx@value.net
To: Thai Smile
Date: April 29, 1999 11:41
Subject: Thank you
Dear Bee,
I want to thank you and the people at "Sweet Singles" for providing such an exceptional, reliable service. In the beginning I was very reluctant to correspond through an international internet site, because I was afraid of being cheated or fooled, but your service has been honest, and the woman I've written to have convinced me that they are genuine and sincere. It is hard for me to believe my luck that I can correspond with such beautiful, talented, educated, and gracious ladies. I've said in my letters how lucky I feel, and how overwhelmed I am by their affection, and it is always true.
Thanks again,
Brian

WHY SOME THAI LADIES LIKE MUCH OLDER MEN?

The following is an email that we replied to Jim in Feb, 99.

Dear Jim,
Thank you for your good questions but I would like to tell that it is normal for many Thai ladies who like much older men if he is nice, sincere, stable, caring and responsible. Many young Thai ladies like older men and open to consider men who are much older than them if she find that he is nice, sincere, financially secure and responsible,... Since some young THai ladies have experienced in marrying young THai men and found that most young men are not responsible, not sincere, not faithful, they still want to play around and want to have new girls and this make young ladies find that most young men can not bring happiness and security to their lives. You will see from our web site that some young THai ladies are divorced and have children whom they must take care of by themselves or have their parents take care of their children if they must work. From my experience, I find that most gentlemen will consider beauty or physical appearrance of the ladies first when they want to choose their ladies but for ladies, when they want to meet a gentleman, they will ask about his job, his security and his personality first, his age, where he come from and how he is like will be second or third questions that they wish to know. Age range of the ladies whom you wish to meet may be between 20-28 but, if you find a lady who is 35 years old but she is still very pretty, slender, look young and she has all of the qualities that you are looking for in a woman. Will you refuse her just only because of her age which is just a number? It is the same situation as our lady who is looking for a right man in her life.
Summary:
1. Many young Thai ladies may like men around their ages but they open their mind to accept much older man too if he is good heart, sincere, faithful, responsible, financially stable and not womaniser. Our young lady will be happy and prefer to marry a gentleman who is much older than her better than marry a young man who is unfaithful, not responsible, not sincere, and a womaniser or butterfly.
2.Many young Thai ladies think about their future and they feel that most much older man are serious in having a permanent relationship and will not play around like younger men. They can be more faithful, secure and sincere than younger men who are not financial stable and ready to take care of their family.
3. Many young Thai ladies found that some much older men still look healthy, good looking and can be acceptable although their ages already passed 50. Thay also feel that much older men are kind, sincere and gentle so this is another reason for them to open their mind to meet and learn more about an older man.
4.Sorry, While writing this email to you, I have a young Thai lady and her age is 26 years old coming to meet a 55 year-old gentleman from Sweden for the second time at our office since he made an appointment with her to see him again and she is willing to come to see him so I asked her why she was interested in much older men since some foreigners would like to know the reason and then I would have more idea to tell him, however I have asked and known these same answers from other young Thai ladies who joined our club and filled out the application form which we also asked her about age range of the men she would like to meet. This lady told me that she felt that most much older men are more mature than younger men and will care about her feeling better than young men.
5. There may be other more reasons that The young Thai ladies can open their mind to accept much older men but these are main reasons that I know from interviewing our young ladies who like older men when they joined our club, however, We have some young ladies who also deny much older men for some reasons. WE have recently had a 68 year old gentleman writing to 3 ladies of us and want to meet them but no body want to answer his letter. Not only because he is too old for them but also he require a lot of things in his future lady so the ladies felt that they will not be able to get along well with him.
However, most young ladies know that " Love a gentleman who love her is better than love someone who does not love her"
Regards,
Bee ( Sweet Singles Thailand )

Summary: Most Thai ladies are positive thinking about having foreign lifetime partners, although many of them are still concerned and afraid and wonder if they will be safe living oversea, or deceived and forced to be prostitutes and possibly abused and treated badly. WE WISH ONLY YOU who are nice gentlemen to join our club, to show the ladies, when you decide to join our club and meet them, that you have pure intention and sincerity in seeking a loving Thai wife. We do want you to co-operate with us by giving us prove of employment, photocopy of your passport, your home addresses, your work address, ..Etc. We do this for our record and the protection of our ladies, and will never release it to any other person except your special lady.


" SOME INTERESTING QUESTIONS"

Sawasdee Barry,
Thank you for your good questions and interest in our Thai ladies. I will answer your questions and attach your original message below.
Regards,
Sweet Singles

Greetings,
I recently stumbled onto your Web site almost by accident. Once I was there, though, I became intrigued and decided to view some of the pictures of the ladies. I agree wholeheartedly with you that Oriental women are the most beautiful, feminine, and elegant in the world, and I have always had a strong attraction for them. I am a Ph.D. student at a local college, and have the opportunity to interact with a number of such ladies, but it seems that just about all of them are married. Having looked through your impressive Web site, I was wondering if you could answer a few questions for me:
1) I am 36 years old, "salt-and-pepper" hair, gainfully employed, recently divorced (my dream girl turned out to be a nightmare instead), no children(and can't have any), a little overweight (but slimming), and not painful to look at but also not a candidate for any "10 Most Handsome Men" contests. What are the chances that someone like me could realistically expect to attract the attention of a beautiful young Thai lady who could have most anyone she wanted?
****IF you had ever read "Why Thai ladies like foreigners" on our web site, you may have noted that we have already answered this question of you. Most Thai ladies care about how the man will treat her better, than how handsome he is which is always changing. If you are nice, loving, caring, financially secure, sincere, honest, good hearted and can take good care of a Thai lady, I believe that she will love you better than a very handsome man who is unfaithful, dishonest, not financially secure or caring and can not give her a secure life etc.

2) Given what happened in my marriage, if I were to happen to attract the attention of such a lady, what are the chances that she would later decide she wanted someone better-looking? Along the same lines, since many of these ladies are so young, what are the chances that after awhile they would become bored with an older man and want someone closer to their age? (Please, I don't mean to imply that any of your clients would be planning to do something like that, it's just that after what happened, almost nothing bad seems beyond the realm of possibility to me).
****THIS IS A GOOD QUESTION TOO, AND I UNDERSTAND THAT MANY OTHER GUYS WHO LIKE YOUNG LADIES WOULD HAVE THE SAME CONCERN AS YOURS TOO. HOWEVER, AS I TOLD YOU BEFORE, MOST THAI LADIES WILL CARE ABOUT YOUR INSIDE AND HOW YOU WILL TREAT HER, BETTER THAN OUTSIDE OR YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. IF YOU ARE STILL VERY GOOD TO HER NO MATTER HOW LONG IT IS, WHY WOULD SHE CHANGE HER MIND FROM YOU JUST FOR SOMEONE BETTER LOOKING BUT INSIDE MAY BE BAD TO HER. SHE WOULD KNOW THAT HIS LOOKS IS NOT STEADY LIKE YOUR GOOD HEART TO HER. MOST NICE THAI LADIES HOLD THAI CUSTOMS AND CULTURE THAT TEACHES HER TO BE FAITHFUL TO HER HUSBAND AND SHE WILL NOT SHARE HER MIND OR BODY WITH ANOTHER MAN WHO IS NOT HER HUSBAND. HOWEVER, WE CAN HAVE BOTH GOOD AND BAD LADIES IN EVERY COUNTRY SO YOU SHOULD TAKE TIME TO LEARN MORE AND MORE ABOUT YOUR LADIES BEFORE MAKING ANY DECISION. MANY THAI LADIES DON'T LIKE TO BE IN A HURRY TO GET MARRIED EITHER, IF SHE IS NOT SURE OF HER MAN. YOU AND THE LADY SHOULD TAKE TIME TO LEARN MORE ABOUT EACH OTHER UNTIL YOU MAKE SURE THAT YOU AND SHE CAN GET ALONG WELL AND SHE REALLY LOVES YOU, LOVES THE WAY YOU ARE, THE WAY YOU ACT AND WHAT YOU LIKE AND DISLIKE,...ETC. IT IS NOT DIFFICULT AND DOESN'T TAKE TOO MUCH TIME TO KNOW IF SOMEONE REALLY LIKES YOU. WHY SHE LIKES YOU AND WHAT MAKES HER LIKE YOU AND FROM THIS YOU CAN KNOW IF SHE TRULY & SINCERELY LOVES YOU. I DON'T THINK THAT THE REASON WHICH WILL MAKE A LADY DECIDE TO MARRY SOMEONE IS BECAUSE OF THE ATTRACTION OF HIS PHYSICAL APPEARANCE ONLY, BUT THERE MUST BE SOMETHING INSIDE HIM THAT WINS HER HEART AND THIS WILL NOT MAKE HER CHANGE YOUR MIND FROM YOU EASILY. AS FAR AS YOUR GOOD QUALITIES, INSIDE THAT MAKES HER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU, THEY STILL REMAIN THE SAME. 3) How serious is the language barrier for most of your clients? I would imagine that it would be difficult to establish a deep relationship if there is difficulty communicating (and even though I know a very little bit of Chinese and am pretty good at languages, it would still take me awhile to learn Thai).
***** EVERYTHING CAN BE LEARNED. NO ONE KNOWS HIS LANGUAGE SINCE HE WAS BORN. ALTHOUGH SOME THAI LADIES MAY NOT SPEAK OR UNDERSTAND ENGLISH AT THE MOMENT, THEY CAN LEARN IT AND PRACTICE IT EVERYDAY, ESPECIALLY IN HER DAILY LIFE IF SHE SHARES HER LIFE WITH A FOREIGN MAN. ONE GUY SAID "I don't think that language should be a reason to prevent two people from getting to know each other." I HAVE SEEN MANY MANY THAI LADIES GET MARRIED TO FOREIGNERS. BEFORE GETTING MARRIED, THE LADIES DON'T SPEAK ANY ENGLISH BUT AFTER SPENDING TIME WITH THEIR MEN FOR YEARS AND YEARS, SHE CAN SPEAK FLUENT ENGLISH, BETTER THAN MANY ENGLISH TEACHERS IN THAILAND. SHE MAY NEED A TRANSLATOR AT THE BEGINNING BUT LATER SHE CAN LEARN AND IMPROVE HER LANGUAGE EVERYDAY AND NIGHT IN HER DAILY LIFE WITH HIM, IN HIS COUNTRY, NEW ENVIRONMENT AND CULTURE, ESPECIALLY IF SHE ALREADY KNOWS SOME BASIC ENGLISH. MANY EDUCATED THAI LADIES CAN SOMETIMES NOT SPEAK ENGLISH BECAUSE THEY SCARELY USE IT IN THEIR DAILY LIVES FOR YEARS AND THEY FORGET IT. I MEAN, THAT IF YOU ARE PRACTICAL, THEN IT CAN BE BETTER THAN JUST THEORY. PRACTICING, USING, LISTENING, WRITING, READING OR SPEAKING ANY LANGUAGE EVERYDAY CAN IMPROVE YOUR LANGUAGE. DON'T FORGET EITHER, THE LANGUAGE OF THE EYES AND THE TOUCH CAN BE WONDERFUL WHILE SHE IS LEARNING, AND IT CAN BRING YOU EVEN CLOSER TOGETHER IF YOU ARE HELPING HER IN HER ENDEAVOR TO LEARN. However, we have many young Thai ladies with English speaking. You will enjoy talking with them for sure.

4) If I were to sign up for one of your plans, would I need anything other than a U.S. passport to visit Thailand?
***MAYBE YOUR BUSINESS CARD IF YOU HAVE ONE. THE CARD WOULD BE FOR US TO VERIFY YOUR WORK, NOT FOR THE AUTHORITIES.

5) If I wanted to sign up for a plan, what are the steps that need to be followed to do so? ****WHICH PLAN? HOWEVER, FOR ANY PLAN THAT YOU WISH TO SIGN UP THEN YOU SHOULD PAY A DEPOSIT FOR THAT PLAN WHILE IN YOUR COUNTRY, WHICH WILL ALLOW YOU TO START YOUR SEARCH AND YOU CAN CONTACT ANY LADIES THROUGH OUR OFFICE AT NO ADDTIONAL CHARGE. YOU WILL GET TO KNOW THEM SINCE YOU ARE IN YOUR COUNTRY AND LEARN MORE ABOUT THEM WHEN YOU ARRIVE IN THAILAND.

6) What happens when the clock strikes 12 midnight on the 1st of January, 2000? Do you anticipate any problems for your service or Thailand in general because of the "Y2K" issue?
*** NO, OUR SERVICE ISN'T INVOLVED WITH THE PROBLEM OF Y2K, BUT THERE MAY BE LESS PEOPLE WHO WILL FLY TO THAILAND SINCE AIRLINES MAY HAVE PROBLEMS WITH Y2K.

7) Lastly, just out of curiosity, I noticed that a number of the ladies were widowed. This is a very sad thing to happen to anyone, much less someone that young. What happened that there are so many very young widows?
*** WE have many widowed, divorced and single young ladies. The reason that many Thai ladies are divorced or widowed is because man Thai men are unfaithful, not responsible,..etc and many Thai ladies marry older men as they are more stable, sincere, and trustworthy.

I apologize for being so "long-winded" in this message. I realize that you must be very busy with your service. Please understand that I found many of the ladies pictured on the Web site to be very beautiful and charming, and I would dearly love to be able to have the right companion at my side, but I am scared to death that I would have the same nightmare occur all over again and am being very cautious this time. Thank you very much for your time,and I appreciate it very much.
***** Thank you for your good questions and interests in our Thai ladies too. However, The world never been dark all the time. It still has the bright side and beautiful sunshine from the sun. If you don't try to walk out of the dark side so how you will find the bright side so please don't give up your hope and good dreams easily. NObody has nightmare everynight. We have happy clients from around the world and would be happy to supply you with contacts or references.
BEST WISHES.
FROM SUNNY THAILAND.

" A SWEET LETTER FROM OUR SWEET LADY TO HER SWEET MAN"

20 March, 99 20 March, 99
My Dear ....,
How are you? I am fine. I am glad that we can commuicate via email which is faster and better. I felt it was such a long time for me to wait for your letter. However, I can always wait for your letter although it will take time but it will prove my mind to you too. Your smile attracts me and it has a lot of power that makes me lost in you, your eyes are very kind and tender and this is the picture that impresses my mind that I will never ever forget it all of my life. The first time I saw your picture, it made me want to be very close to you, to talk with you. It surprises me since every time I was looking at your picture, you were also looking at me, giving me moral support, warm and many good feelings that it is difficult to explain via email or letter or any words can tell. If you have any question, please feel free to ask me any thing you like and I will answer every question of yours like we are sitting and talking with each other alone and it is only you and me. Whenever you make a trip to any where, please write to let me know about your travelling too. I don't know if it will bother you but if I know something very interesting about Thailand and you don't know, I will write to tell you too so we can exchange our experiences. Brain.... Do you like sports? What kind of sports can you play the best? From your physical appearance and your height, you must like sports but I would not like to guess what it is. Would like for you to tell me. For me, I like badminton, taking walks around my village, and judo for protecting myself. I am easy going, don't like to take advantage of another for my own personal gain. I am not strict with anything but let it depend on the situation. My favorite things are nature, forests, walking on the mountains and looking at the ocean of fog in the morning, shouting and taking pictures. It is like I release my life from busy things in life. Travelling to a place that has beautiful nature is the thing I like the best. If I have many days off or vacation, I will never ever miss this opportunity. I am cool hearted (Not hot tempered), like to smile, laugh, be cheerful and this makes me feel that it is a wonderful medicine that will make my life last long. I like all kinds of music and songs except rock music, I don't like it very much. I now would like to listen to the songs that you compose. I would like to sit near you and listen to the song you are singing for me and your son is sitting on my lap and that would be a very romantic picture like you said that you would like for me to take walks with you in CA. For me, I think that no matter where it is just having you be by my side, I will always be happy to go with you. Brian.... my father is the leader of our family and he works at a post office. He will be retried next year. My mother sells food near the place that my dad works so everything in the house is my duties and my sisters. Brian... you know the pictures of the house that you sent to me, I like the picture of the fireplace the best because I dream of sitting near the fireplace at your house someday and listening to your singing a song. You can organise the house very neatly. I like the book shelf too. I will pick one book from your shelf to read for your son too. I don't wonder why you devote your time for your son since he is so lovely. I just only saw his picture, I still love him very much. I hope you don't mind if I will ask for your son's picture too. I am now trying so hard to practise my English so that we can talk when you come in Aug. I will do my best and everything to make you happy just please give me a chance to talk with you. I await for you, you know. Lastly, would like to let you know that I always wait for your reply and all of your storys. Above all, I will always come to Sweet Singles just to wait for your letter after hearing from Bee. She helps me a lot with English. You are very special to me including your son too. I will keep all of your letters and pictures that you sent to me no matter what happens. Please remember that I am always by your side and I am ready to be your good friend and discuss with you for every thing and problems because we can not live alone in the world but we must depend upon each other and exchange things all the time. The world has never ever stopped and we should do the best things to keep all of the good impression for our memmory as long as we can. Time files and I will never make myself useless. Will always be ready to do things that we like to do and this depends on ourselves too. Don't do things that is too over stressful. Don't fall down and get discouraged. Stand up and look around and we will see someone who is worse off than us. If we look at better persons, don't be discouraged but tell ourselves that this will be the samples of better things in life if we try and not be discouraged.

Love and miss you and your son very very much.
Pennapa

There are a lot of million stars in the sky
It can not compare with I, who have only one heart
If the stars shine all over the sky
It can not compare with my mind that has only you
I am sending moral support to you and your son.


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WHY THAI LADIES LIKE FOREIGN MEN



This is one of the questions we ask our Thai ladies on the application form when they come to join our club.

The ladies give us many reasons. Here is a sampling of them.

  • Many ladies said they themselves like foreigners both physically and mentally.
  • Some of them said they feel that most foreigners are more sincere, responsible, mature and faithful than many Thai men.
  • Some of our ladies said they have seen their Thai girl friends whose husbands are European or American and they are very happy together. Their husbands are caring, responsible, family loving and their children are very cute.
  • Another lady said she would like to have a warm family with a nice Caucasian gentleman and share the rest of her life with him in his country or anywhere her husband may wish to live.
  • One lady said she wished to have a better life and have someone in her life with whom she can share her thoughts, opinions, happiness, sadness, bad times and good times.
  • The response from this lady was she would like to work aboard (continue her studies oversea or practice her English), and if she can find MR.RIGHT who loves and is sincere to her and the chemistry is right, then she is very happy to marry him and become his lifetime mate.

" THANK YOU"


-----Original Message-----
From: Brian King xxxxx@value.net
To: Thai Smile
Date: April 29, 1999 11:41
Subject: Thank you
Dear Bee,
I want to thank you and the people at "Sweet Singles" for providing such an exceptional, reliable service. In the beginning I was very reluctant to correspond through an international internet site, because I was afraid of being cheated or fooled, but your service has been honest, and the woman I've written to have convinced me that they are genuine and sincere. It is hard for me to believe my luck that I can correspond with such beautiful, talented, educated, and gracious ladies. I've said in my letters how lucky I feel, and how overwhelmed I am by their affection, and it is always true.
Thanks again,
Brian

WHY SOME THAI LADIES LIKE MUCH OLDER MEN?

The following is an email that we replied to Jim in Feb, 99.

Dear Jim,
Thank you for your good questions but I would like to tell that it is normal for many Thai ladies who like much older men if he is nice, sincere, stable, caring and responsible. Many young Thai ladies like older men and open to consider men who are much older than them if she find that he is nice, sincere, financially secure and responsible,... Since some young THai ladies have experienced in marrying young THai men and found that most young men are not responsible, not sincere, not faithful, they still want to play around and want to have new girls and this make young ladies find that most young men can not bring happiness and security to their lives. You will see from our web site that some young THai ladies are divorced and have children whom they must take care of by themselves or have their parents take care of their children if they must work. From my experience, I find that most gentlemen will consider beauty or physical appearrance of the ladies first when they want to choose their ladies but for ladies, when they want to meet a gentleman, they will ask about his job, his security and his personality first, his age, where he come from and how he is like will be second or third questions that they wish to know. Age range of the ladies whom you wish to meet may be between 20-28 but, if you find a lady who is 35 years old but she is still very pretty, slender, look young and she has all of the qualities that you are looking for in a woman. Will you refuse her just only because of her age which is just a number? It is the same situation as our lady who is looking for a right man in her life.
Summary:
1. Many young Thai ladies may like men around their ages but they open their mind to accept much older man too if he is good heart, sincere, faithful, responsible, financially stable and not womaniser. Our young lady will be happy and prefer to marry a gentleman who is much older than her better than marry a young man who is unfaithful, not responsible, not sincere, and a womaniser or butterfly.
2.Many young Thai ladies think about their future and they feel that most much older man are serious in having a permanent relationship and will not play around like younger men. They can be more faithful, secure and sincere than younger men who are not financial stable and ready to take care of their family.
3. Many young Thai ladies found that some much older men still look healthy, good looking and can be acceptable although their ages already passed 50. Thay also feel that much older men are kind, sincere and gentle so this is another reason for them to open their mind to meet and learn more about an older man.
4.Sorry, While writing this email to you, I have a young Thai lady and her age is 26 years old coming to meet a 55 year-old gentleman from Sweden for the second time at our office since he made an appointment with her to see him again and she is willing to come to see him so I asked her why she was interested in much older men since some foreigners would like to know the reason and then I would have more idea to tell him, however I have asked and known these same answers from other young Thai ladies who joined our club and filled out the application form which we also asked her about age range of the men she would like to meet. This lady told me that she felt that most much older men are more mature than younger men and will care about her feeling better than young men.
5. There may be other more reasons that The young Thai ladies can open their mind to accept much older men but these are main reasons that I know from interviewing our young ladies who like older men when they joined our club, however, We have some young ladies who also deny much older men for some reasons. WE have recently had a 68 year old gentleman writing to 3 ladies of us and want to meet them but no body want to answer his letter. Not only because he is too old for them but also he require a lot of things in his future lady so the ladies felt that they will not be able to get along well with him.
However, most young ladies know that " Love a gentleman who love her is better than love someone who does not love her"
Regards,
Bee ( Sweet Singles Thailand )

Summary: Most Thai ladies are positive thinking about having foreign lifetime partners, although many of them are still concerned and afraid and wonder if they will be safe living oversea, or deceived and forced to be prostitutes and possibly abused and treated badly. WE WISH ONLY YOU who are nice gentlemen to join our club, to show the ladies, when you decide to join our club and meet them, that you have pure intention and sincerity in seeking a loving Thai wife. We do want you to co-operate with us by giving us prove of employment, photocopy of your passport, your home addresses, your work address, ..Etc. We do this for our record and the protection of our ladies, and will never release it to any other person except your special lady.


" SOME INTERESTING QUESTIONS"

Sawasdee Barry,
Thank you for your good questions and interest in our Thai ladies. I will answer your questions and attach your original message below.
Regards,
Sweet Singles

Greetings,
I recently stumbled onto your Web site almost by accident. Once I was there, though, I became intrigued and decided to view some of the pictures of the ladies. I agree wholeheartedly with you that Oriental women are the most beautiful, feminine, and elegant in the world, and I have always had a strong attraction for them. I am a Ph.D. student at a local college, and have the opportunity to interact with a number of such ladies, but it seems that just about all of them are married. Having looked through your impressive Web site, I was wondering if you could answer a few questions for me:
1) I am 36 years old, "salt-and-pepper" hair, gainfully employed, recently divorced (my dream girl turned out to be a nightmare instead), no children(and can't have any), a little overweight (but slimming), and not painful to look at but also not a candidate for any "10 Most Handsome Men" contests. What are the chances that someone like me could realistically expect to attract the attention of a beautiful young Thai lady who could have most anyone she wanted?
****IF you had ever read "Why Thai ladies like foreigners" on our web site, you may have noted that we have already answered this question of you. Most Thai ladies care about how the man will treat her better, than how handsome he is which is always changing. If you are nice, loving, caring, financially secure, sincere, honest, good hearted and can take good care of a Thai lady, I believe that she will love you better than a very handsome man who is unfaithful, dishonest, not financially secure or caring and can not give her a secure life etc.

2) Given what happened in my marriage, if I were to happen to attract the attention of such a lady, what are the chances that she would later decide she wanted someone better-looking? Along the same lines, since many of these ladies are so young, what are the chances that after awhile they would become bored with an older man and want someone closer to their age? (Please, I don't mean to imply that any of your clients would be planning to do something like that, it's just that after what happened, almost nothing bad seems beyond the realm of possibility to me).
****THIS IS A GOOD QUESTION TOO, AND I UNDERSTAND THAT MANY OTHER GUYS WHO LIKE YOUNG LADIES WOULD HAVE THE SAME CONCERN AS YOURS TOO. HOWEVER, AS I TOLD YOU BEFORE, MOST THAI LADIES WILL CARE ABOUT YOUR INSIDE AND HOW YOU WILL TREAT HER, BETTER THAN OUTSIDE OR YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. IF YOU ARE STILL VERY GOOD TO HER NO MATTER HOW LONG IT IS, WHY WOULD SHE CHANGE HER MIND FROM YOU JUST FOR SOMEONE BETTER LOOKING BUT INSIDE MAY BE BAD TO HER. SHE WOULD KNOW THAT HIS LOOKS IS NOT STEADY LIKE YOUR GOOD HEART TO HER. MOST NICE THAI LADIES HOLD THAI CUSTOMS AND CULTURE THAT TEACHES HER TO BE FAITHFUL TO HER HUSBAND AND SHE WILL NOT SHARE HER MIND OR BODY WITH ANOTHER MAN WHO IS NOT HER HUSBAND. HOWEVER, WE CAN HAVE BOTH GOOD AND BAD LADIES IN EVERY COUNTRY SO YOU SHOULD TAKE TIME TO LEARN MORE AND MORE ABOUT YOUR LADIES BEFORE MAKING ANY DECISION. MANY THAI LADIES DON'T LIKE TO BE IN A HURRY TO GET MARRIED EITHER, IF SHE IS NOT SURE OF HER MAN. YOU AND THE LADY SHOULD TAKE TIME TO LEARN MORE ABOUT EACH OTHER UNTIL YOU MAKE SURE THAT YOU AND SHE CAN GET ALONG WELL AND SHE REALLY LOVES YOU, LOVES THE WAY YOU ARE, THE WAY YOU ACT AND WHAT YOU LIKE AND DISLIKE,...ETC. IT IS NOT DIFFICULT AND DOESN'T TAKE TOO MUCH TIME TO KNOW IF SOMEONE REALLY LIKES YOU. WHY SHE LIKES YOU AND WHAT MAKES HER LIKE YOU AND FROM THIS YOU CAN KNOW IF SHE TRULY & SINCERELY LOVES YOU. I DON'T THINK THAT THE REASON WHICH WILL MAKE A LADY DECIDE TO MARRY SOMEONE IS BECAUSE OF THE ATTRACTION OF HIS PHYSICAL APPEARANCE ONLY, BUT THERE MUST BE SOMETHING INSIDE HIM THAT WINS HER HEART AND THIS WILL NOT MAKE HER CHANGE YOUR MIND FROM YOU EASILY. AS FAR AS YOUR GOOD QUALITIES, INSIDE THAT MAKES HER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU, THEY STILL REMAIN THE SAME. 3) How serious is the language barrier for most of your clients? I would imagine that it would be difficult to establish a deep relationship if there is difficulty communicating (and even though I know a very little bit of Chinese and am pretty good at languages, it would still take me awhile to learn Thai).
***** EVERYTHING CAN BE LEARNED. NO ONE KNOWS HIS LANGUAGE SINCE HE WAS BORN. ALTHOUGH SOME THAI LADIES MAY NOT SPEAK OR UNDERSTAND ENGLISH AT THE MOMENT, THEY CAN LEARN IT AND PRACTICE IT EVERYDAY, ESPECIALLY IN HER DAILY LIFE IF SHE SHARES HER LIFE WITH A FOREIGN MAN. ONE GUY SAID "I don't think that language should be a reason to prevent two people from getting to know each other." I HAVE SEEN MANY MANY THAI LADIES GET MARRIED TO FOREIGNERS. BEFORE GETTING MARRIED, THE LADIES DON'T SPEAK ANY ENGLISH BUT AFTER SPENDING TIME WITH THEIR MEN FOR YEARS AND YEARS, SHE CAN SPEAK FLUENT ENGLISH, BETTER THAN MANY ENGLISH TEACHERS IN THAILAND. SHE MAY NEED A TRANSLATOR AT THE BEGINNING BUT LATER SHE CAN LEARN AND IMPROVE HER LANGUAGE EVERYDAY AND NIGHT IN HER DAILY LIFE WITH HIM, IN HIS COUNTRY, NEW ENVIRONMENT AND CULTURE, ESPECIALLY IF SHE ALREADY KNOWS SOME BASIC ENGLISH. MANY EDUCATED THAI LADIES CAN SOMETIMES NOT SPEAK ENGLISH BECAUSE THEY SCARELY USE IT IN THEIR DAILY LIVES FOR YEARS AND THEY FORGET IT. I MEAN, THAT IF YOU ARE PRACTICAL, THEN IT CAN BE BETTER THAN JUST THEORY. PRACTICING, USING, LISTENING, WRITING, READING OR SPEAKING ANY LANGUAGE EVERYDAY CAN IMPROVE YOUR LANGUAGE. DON'T FORGET EITHER, THE LANGUAGE OF THE EYES AND THE TOUCH CAN BE WONDERFUL WHILE SHE IS LEARNING, AND IT CAN BRING YOU EVEN CLOSER TOGETHER IF YOU ARE HELPING HER IN HER ENDEAVOR TO LEARN. However, we have many young Thai ladies with English speaking. You will enjoy talking with them for sure.

4) If I were to sign up for one of your plans, would I need anything other than a U.S. passport to visit Thailand?
***MAYBE YOUR BUSINESS CARD IF YOU HAVE ONE. THE CARD WOULD BE FOR US TO VERIFY YOUR WORK, NOT FOR THE AUTHORITIES.

5) If I wanted to sign up for a plan, what are the steps that need to be followed to do so? ****WHICH PLAN? HOWEVER, FOR ANY PLAN THAT YOU WISH TO SIGN UP THEN YOU SHOULD PAY A DEPOSIT FOR THAT PLAN WHILE IN YOUR COUNTRY, WHICH WILL ALLOW YOU TO START YOUR SEARCH AND YOU CAN CONTACT ANY LADIES THROUGH OUR OFFICE AT NO ADDTIONAL CHARGE. YOU WILL GET TO KNOW THEM SINCE YOU ARE IN YOUR COUNTRY AND LEARN MORE ABOUT THEM WHEN YOU ARRIVE IN THAILAND.

6) What happens when the clock strikes 12 midnight on the 1st of January, 2000? Do you anticipate any problems for your service or Thailand in general because of the "Y2K" issue?
*** NO, OUR SERVICE ISN'T INVOLVED WITH THE PROBLEM OF Y2K, BUT THERE MAY BE LESS PEOPLE WHO WILL FLY TO THAILAND SINCE AIRLINES MAY HAVE PROBLEMS WITH Y2K.

7) Lastly, just out of curiosity, I noticed that a number of the ladies were widowed. This is a very sad thing to happen to anyone, much less someone that young. What happened that there are so many very young widows?
*** WE have many widowed, divorced and single young ladies. The reason that many Thai ladies are divorced or widowed is because man Thai men are unfaithful, not responsible,..etc and many Thai ladies marry older men as they are more stable, sincere, and trustworthy.

I apologize for being so "long-winded" in this message. I realize that you must be very busy with your service. Please understand that I found many of the ladies pictured on the Web site to be very beautiful and charming, and I would dearly love to be able to have the right companion at my side, but I am scared to death that I would have the same nightmare occur all over again and am being very cautious this time. Thank you very much for your time,and I appreciate it very much.
***** Thank you for your good questions and interests in our Thai ladies too. However, The world never been dark all the time. It still has the bright side and beautiful sunshine from the sun. If you don't try to walk out of the dark side so how you will find the bright side so please don't give up your hope and good dreams easily. NObody has nightmare everynight. We have happy clients from around the world and would be happy to supply you with contacts or references.
BEST WISHES.
FROM SUNNY THAILAND.

" A SWEET LETTER FROM OUR SWEET LADY TO HER SWEET MAN"

20 March, 99 20 March, 99
My Dear ....,
How are you? I am fine. I am glad that we can commuicate via email which is faster and better. I felt it was such a long time for me to wait for your letter. However, I can always wait for your letter although it will take time but it will prove my mind to you too. Your smile attracts me and it has a lot of power that makes me lost in you, your eyes are very kind and tender and this is the picture that impresses my mind that I will never ever forget it all of my life. The first time I saw your picture, it made me want to be very close to you, to talk with you. It surprises me since every time I was looking at your picture, you were also looking at me, giving me moral support, warm and many good feelings that it is difficult to explain via email or letter or any words can tell. If you have any question, please feel free to ask me any thing you like and I will answer every question of yours like we are sitting and talking with each other alone and it is only you and me. Whenever you make a trip to any where, please write to let me know about your travelling too. I don't know if it will bother you but if I know something very interesting about Thailand and you don't know, I will write to tell you too so we can exchange our experiences. Brain.... Do you like sports? What kind of sports can you play the best? From your physical appearance and your height, you must like sports but I would not like to guess what it is. Would like for you to tell me. For me, I like badminton, taking walks around my village, and judo for protecting myself. I am easy going, don't like to take advantage of another for my own personal gain. I am not strict with anything but let it depend on the situation. My favorite things are nature, forests, walking on the mountains and looking at the ocean of fog in the morning, shouting and taking pictures. It is like I release my life from busy things in life. Travelling to a place that has beautiful nature is the thing I like the best. If I have many days off or vacation, I will never ever miss this opportunity. I am cool hearted (Not hot tempered), like to smile, laugh, be cheerful and this makes me feel that it is a wonderful medicine that will make my life last long. I like all kinds of music and songs except rock music, I don't like it very much. I now would like to listen to the songs that you compose. I would like to sit near you and listen to the song you are singing for me and your son is sitting on my lap and that would be a very romantic picture like you said that you would like for me to take walks with you in CA. For me, I think that no matter where it is just having you be by my side, I will always be happy to go with you. Brian.... my father is the leader of our family and he works at a post office. He will be retried next year. My mother sells food near the place that my dad works so everything in the house is my duties and my sisters. Brian... you know the pictures of the house that you sent to me, I like the picture of the fireplace the best because I dream of sitting near the fireplace at your house someday and listening to your singing a song. You can organise the house very neatly. I like the book shelf too. I will pick one book from your shelf to read for your son too. I don't wonder why you devote your time for your son since he is so lovely. I just only saw his picture, I still love him very much. I hope you don't mind if I will ask for your son's picture too. I am now trying so hard to practise my English so that we can talk when you come in Aug. I will do my best and everything to make you happy just please give me a chance to talk with you. I await for you, you know. Lastly, would like to let you know that I always wait for your reply and all of your storys. Above all, I will always come to Sweet Singles just to wait for your letter after hearing from Bee. She helps me a lot with English. You are very special to me including your son too. I will keep all of your letters and pictures that you sent to me no matter what happens. Please remember that I am always by your side and I am ready to be your good friend and discuss with you for every thing and problems because we can not live alone in the world but we must depend upon each other and exchange things all the time. The world has never ever stopped and we should do the best things to keep all of the good impression for our memmory as long as we can. Time files and I will never make myself useless. Will always be ready to do things that we like to do and this depends on ourselves too. Don't do things that is too over stressful. Don't fall down and get discouraged. Stand up and look around and we will see someone who is worse off than us. If we look at better persons, don't be discouraged but tell ourselves that this will be the samples of better things in life if we try and not be discouraged.

Love and miss you and your son very very much.
Pennapa

There are a lot of million stars in the sky
It can not compare with I, who have only one heart
If the stars shine all over the sky
It can not compare with my mind that has only you
I am sending moral support to you and your son.


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