Summary: Most Thai ladies are positive thinking about having foreign lifetime partners, although many of them are still concerned and afraid and wonder if they will be safe living oversea, or deceived and forced to be prostitutes and possibly abused and treated badly. WE WISH ONLY YOU who are nice gentlemen to join our club, to show the ladies, when you decide to join our club and meet them, that you have pure intention and sincerity in seeking a loving Thai wife. We do want you to co-operate with us by giving us prove of employment, photocopy of your passport, your home addresses, your work address, ..Etc. We do this for our record and the protection of our ladies, and will never release it to any other person except your special lady.
" SOME INTERESTING QUESTIONS"
Sawasdee Barry,
Thank you for your good questions and interest in our Thai ladies.
I will answer your questions and attach your original message below.
Regards,
Sweet Singles
Greetings,
I recently stumbled onto your Web site almost by accident. Once I was
there, though, I became intrigued and decided to view some of the pictures of the ladies. I agree wholeheartedly with you that Oriental women are the most beautiful, feminine, and elegant in the world, and I have always had a strong attraction for them. I am a Ph.D. student at a local college, and
have the opportunity to interact with a number of such ladies, but it seems that just about all of them are married.
Having looked through your impressive Web site, I was wondering if you could answer a few questions for me:
1) I am 36 years old, "salt-and-pepper" hair, gainfully employed, recently
divorced (my dream girl turned out to be a nightmare instead), no children(and can't have any), a little overweight (but slimming), and not painful to look at but also not a candidate for any "10 Most Handsome Men" contests.
What are the chances that someone like me could realistically expect to attract the attention of a beautiful young Thai lady who could have most anyone she wanted?
****IF you had ever read "Why Thai ladies like foreigners" on our web site, you may have noted that we have already answered this question of you. Most Thai ladies care about how the man will treat her better, than how handsome he is which is always changing. If you are nice, loving, caring, financially secure, sincere, honest, good hearted and can take good care of a Thai lady,
I believe that she will love you better than a very handsome man who is unfaithful, dishonest, not financially secure or caring and can not give her a secure life etc.
2) Given what happened in my marriage, if I were to happen to attract the attention of such a lady, what are the chances that she would later decide she wanted someone better-looking? Along the same lines, since many of these ladies are so young, what are the chances that after awhile they would become bored with an older man and want someone closer to their age?
(Please, I don't mean to imply that any of your clients would be planning to do something like that, it's just that after what happened, almost nothing bad seems beyond the realm of possibility to me).
****THIS IS A GOOD QUESTION TOO, AND I UNDERSTAND THAT MANY OTHER GUYS WHO LIKE YOUNG LADIES WOULD HAVE THE SAME CONCERN AS YOURS TOO. HOWEVER, AS I TOLD YOU BEFORE, MOST THAI LADIES WILL CARE ABOUT YOUR INSIDE AND HOW YOU
WILL TREAT HER, BETTER THAN OUTSIDE OR YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE. IF YOU ARE
STILL VERY GOOD TO HER NO MATTER HOW LONG IT IS, WHY WOULD SHE CHANGE HER
MIND FROM YOU JUST FOR SOMEONE BETTER LOOKING BUT INSIDE MAY BE BAD
TO HER. SHE WOULD KNOW THAT HIS LOOKS IS NOT STEADY LIKE YOUR GOOD HEART
TO HER. MOST NICE THAI LADIES HOLD THAI CUSTOMS AND CULTURE THAT TEACHES
HER TO BE FAITHFUL TO HER HUSBAND AND SHE WILL NOT SHARE HER MIND OR BODY
WITH ANOTHER MAN WHO IS NOT HER HUSBAND. HOWEVER, WE CAN HAVE BOTH GOOD AND
BAD LADIES IN EVERY COUNTRY SO YOU SHOULD TAKE TIME TO LEARN MORE AND MORE
ABOUT YOUR LADIES BEFORE MAKING ANY
DECISION. MANY THAI LADIES DON'T LIKE TO BE IN A HURRY TO GET MARRIED
EITHER, IF SHE
IS NOT SURE OF HER MAN. YOU AND THE LADY SHOULD TAKE TIME TO LEARN MORE
ABOUT EACH OTHER UNTIL YOU MAKE SURE THAT YOU AND SHE CAN GET ALONG WELL AND
SHE REALLY LOVES YOU, LOVES THE WAY YOU ARE, THE WAY YOU ACT AND WHAT YOU
LIKE
AND DISLIKE,...ETC.
IT IS NOT DIFFICULT AND DOESN'T TAKE TOO MUCH TIME TO KNOW IF
SOMEONE REALLY LIKES YOU. WHY SHE LIKES YOU AND WHAT MAKES HER LIKE YOU AND
FROM THIS YOU CAN KNOW IF SHE TRULY & SINCERELY LOVES YOU.
I DON'T THINK THAT THE REASON WHICH WILL MAKE A LADY DECIDE TO MARRY SOMEONE
IS BECAUSE OF THE ATTRACTION OF HIS PHYSICAL APPEARANCE ONLY, BUT
THERE MUST BE SOMETHING INSIDE HIM THAT WINS HER HEART AND THIS WILL NOT
MAKE
HER CHANGE YOUR MIND FROM YOU EASILY. AS FAR AS YOUR GOOD QUALITIES, INSIDE
THAT
MAKES HER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU, THEY STILL REMAIN THE SAME.
3) How serious is the language barrier for most of your clients? I would
imagine that it would be difficult to establish a deep relationship if
there is difficulty communicating (and even though I know a very little bit of Chinese and am pretty good at languages, it would still take me awhile to learn Thai).
***** EVERYTHING CAN BE LEARNED. NO ONE KNOWS HIS LANGUAGE SINCE
HE WAS BORN. ALTHOUGH SOME THAI LADIES MAY NOT SPEAK OR UNDERSTAND ENGLISH
AT THE MOMENT, THEY CAN LEARN IT AND PRACTICE IT EVERYDAY, ESPECIALLY IN
HER DAILY LIFE IF SHE SHARES HER LIFE WITH A FOREIGN MAN. ONE GUY SAID "I
don't
think that language should be a reason to prevent two people from getting to
know each other." I HAVE SEEN MANY MANY THAI LADIES GET MARRIED TO
FOREIGNERS.
BEFORE GETTING MARRIED, THE LADIES DON'T SPEAK ANY ENGLISH BUT AFTER
SPENDING TIME WITH THEIR MEN FOR YEARS AND YEARS, SHE CAN SPEAK FLUENT
ENGLISH, BETTER THAN MANY ENGLISH TEACHERS IN THAILAND. SHE MAY NEED A
TRANSLATOR AT THE BEGINNING BUT LATER SHE CAN LEARN AND IMPROVE HER LANGUAGE
EVERYDAY AND NIGHT IN HER DAILY LIFE WITH HIM, IN HIS COUNTRY, NEW
ENVIRONMENT AND CULTURE, ESPECIALLY IF SHE ALREADY KNOWS SOME BASIC
ENGLISH. MANY EDUCATED THAI LADIES CAN SOMETIMES NOT SPEAK
ENGLISH BECAUSE THEY SCARELY USE IT IN THEIR DAILY LIVES FOR YEARS AND THEY
FORGET IT. I MEAN, THAT IF YOU ARE PRACTICAL, THEN IT CAN BE BETTER THAN
JUST THEORY. PRACTICING, USING, LISTENING, WRITING, READING OR SPEAKING ANY LANGUAGE EVERYDAY
CAN IMPROVE YOUR LANGUAGE. DON'T FORGET EITHER, THE LANGUAGE OF THE EYES
AND THE TOUCH CAN BE WONDERFUL WHILE SHE IS LEARNING, AND IT CAN BRING YOU
EVEN CLOSER TOGETHER IF YOU ARE HELPING HER IN HER ENDEAVOR TO LEARN. However, we have many young Thai ladies with English speaking. You will enjoy talking with them for sure.
4) If I were to sign up for one of your plans, would I need anything other than a U.S. passport to visit Thailand?
***MAYBE YOUR BUSINESS CARD IF YOU HAVE ONE. THE CARD WOULD BE FOR US TO VERIFY YOUR WORK, NOT FOR THE AUTHORITIES.
5) If I wanted to sign up for a plan, what are the steps that need to be
followed to do so?
****WHICH PLAN? HOWEVER, FOR ANY PLAN THAT YOU WISH TO
SIGN UP THEN YOU SHOULD PAY A DEPOSIT FOR THAT PLAN WHILE IN YOUR COUNTRY,
WHICH WILL ALLOW YOU TO START YOUR SEARCH AND YOU CAN CONTACT ANY LADIES
THROUGH
OUR OFFICE AT NO ADDTIONAL CHARGE. YOU WILL GET TO KNOW THEM SINCE YOU ARE
IN YOUR COUNTRY AND LEARN MORE ABOUT THEM WHEN YOU ARRIVE IN THAILAND.
6) What happens when the clock strikes 12 midnight on the 1st of January,
2000? Do you anticipate any problems for your service or Thailand in
general because of the "Y2K" issue?
*** NO, OUR SERVICE ISN'T INVOLVED WITH THE PROBLEM OF Y2K, BUT THERE MAY
BE LESS PEOPLE WHO WILL FLY TO THAILAND SINCE AIRLINES MAY HAVE PROBLEMS WITH
Y2K.
7) Lastly, just out of curiosity, I noticed that a number of the ladies
were widowed. This is a very sad thing to happen to anyone, much less someone that young. What happened that there are so many very young widows?
*** WE have many widowed, divorced and single young ladies. The reason that many Thai ladies are divorced or widowed is because man Thai men are unfaithful, not responsible,..etc and many Thai ladies
marry older men as they are more stable, sincere, and trustworthy.
I apologize for being so "long-winded" in this message. I realize that you must be very busy with your service. Please understand that I found many of the ladies pictured on the Web site to be very beautiful and charming, and I would dearly love to be able to have the right companion at my side, but I am scared to death that I would have the same nightmare occur all over again and am being very cautious this time. Thank you very much for your time,and I appreciate it very much.
***** Thank you for your good questions and interests in our Thai ladies too. However, The world never been dark all the time. It still has the bright side and beautiful sunshine from the sun. If you don't try to walk out of the dark side so how you will find the bright side so please don't give up your hope and good dreams easily. NObody has nightmare everynight. We have happy clients from around the world and would be happy to supply you with contacts or references.
BEST WISHES.
FROM SUNNY THAILAND.
" A SWEET LETTER FROM OUR SWEET LADY TO HER SWEET MAN"
20 March, 99
20 March, 99
My Dear ....,
How are you? I am fine. I am glad that we can commuicate via email which
is faster and better. I felt it was such a long time for me to wait for
your
letter. However, I can always wait for your letter although it will take
time but it will prove my mind to you too. Your smile attracts me and it has
a lot of power that makes me lost in you, your eyes are very kind and
tender and this is the picture that impresses my mind that I will never
ever forget it all of my life. The first time I saw your picture, it made
me want to be very close to you, to talk
with you. It surprises me since every time I was looking at your picture,
you were also looking at me, giving me moral support, warm and many good
feelings that it is difficult to explain via email or letter or any words
can tell.
If you have any question, please feel free to ask me any thing you like
and I will answer every question of yours like we are sitting and talking
with each other alone and it is only you and me. Whenever you make a
trip to any where, please write to let me know about your travelling too. I
don't know if it will bother you but if I know something very interesting
about Thailand and you don't know, I will write to tell you too so we can
exchange our experiences.
Brain.... Do you like sports? What kind of sports can you play the
best? From your physical appearance and your height, you must like sports
but I would not like to guess what it is. Would like for you to tell me.
For me, I like badminton, taking walks around my village, and judo for
protecting myself.
I am easy going, don't like to take advantage of another for my own
personal gain. I am not strict with anything but let it depend on the
situation. My favorite things are nature, forests, walking on the mountains
and looking at the ocean of fog in the morning, shouting and taking
pictures. It
is like I release my life from busy things in life. Travelling to a place
that has beautiful nature is the thing I like the best. If I have many days
off or vacation, I will never ever miss this opportunity. I am cool
hearted (Not hot tempered), like to smile, laugh, be cheerful and this makes
me feel that it is a wonderful medicine that will make my life last long. I
like all kinds of music and songs except rock music, I don't like it very
much. I now would like to listen to the songs that you compose. I would
like
to sit near you and listen to the song you are singing for me and your son
is sitting on my lap and that would be a very romantic picture like you said
that you would like for me to take walks with you in CA. For me, I think
that
no matter where it is just having you be by my side, I will always be happy
to go with you.
Brian.... my father is the leader of our family and he works at a post
office. He will be retried next year. My mother sells food near the place
that my dad works so everything in the house is my duties and my sisters.
Brian... you know the pictures of the house that you sent to me, I like
the picture of the fireplace the best because I dream of sitting near the
fireplace
at your house someday and listening to your singing a song.
You can organise the house very neatly. I like the book shelf too. I
will pick one book from your shelf to read for your son too. I don't wonder
why you devote your time for your son since he is so lovely. I just only
saw his picture, I still love him very much. I hope you don't mind if I
will ask for your son's picture too.
I am now trying so hard to practise my English so that we can talk
when
you come in Aug. I will do my best and everything to make you happy just
please give me a chance to talk with you. I await for you, you know.
Lastly, would like to let you know that I always wait for your reply
and all of your storys. Above all, I will always come to Sweet Singles just
to wait for your letter after hearing from Bee. She helps me a lot with English. You are very special to
me including your son too. I will keep all of your letters and pictures
that you sent to me no matter what happens. Please remember that I am always
by your side and I am ready to be your good friend and discuss with you
for every thing and problems because we can not live alone in the world but
we must depend upon each other and exchange things all the time. The world
has never ever stopped and we should do the best things to keep all of the
good
impression for our memmory as long as we can. Time files and I will never
make myself useless. Will always be ready to do things that we like to do
and this depends on ourselves too. Don't do things that is too over
stressful. Don't
fall down and get discouraged. Stand up and look around and we will see
someone
who is worse off than us. If we look at better persons, don't be
discouraged but
tell ourselves that this will be the samples of better things in life if we
try and not be discouraged.
Love and miss you and your son very very much.
Pennapa
There are a lot of million stars in the sky
It can not compare with I, who have only one heart
If the stars shine all over the sky
It can not compare with my mind that has only you
I am sending moral support to you and your son.
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