BOASTING – RIGHT or WRONG?
In the Old
Testament, it is the act of praising superior qualities or great acts.
In the New Testament (Gk. “kauchaomai”),
boasting is taking pride or satisfaction in; rejoicing in; or praising.
When
telling others about something great, superior, or wonderful and if it’s done
with self-centered, egotistical motives, then boasting becomes sinful.
Right Uses
(generally)
Psa. 34:2 In what does David
say his soul shall make its boast (“halal” –
praise)?
In
what do you boast/praise, and why?
Psa. 44:8 In what and how long
did the psalmist boast (“halal” – greatly praise)?
Is
this true of you, and why?
Is your boasting in
Christ (Christ working in and through you) in things pertaining to God (in
sharing the gospel with others or in soul’s saved), and why?
Gal. 6:4 When will we as Christians have reason for
boasting (“kauchema” – rejoicing) in regard
to ourselves alone?
Do you boast about
yourself and/or your accomplishments because you compare yourself and your
accomplishments with others who are inferior to you or less productive in order
to make yourself look good, or do you boast/rejoice because when you compare
yourself today with what you were in the past, you see progress in your life?
Gal.
Do
you boast (brag) about or rejoice in other Christians keeping your
denomination’s or church’s man-made religious rituals or rules, or do you boast in what Christ has done for you in
dying on the cross to pay the penalty for your sins so you can go to heaven,
and why?
1 Cor. 9:11-18 Regarding what didn’t Paul want
any person to make his boast (claim) an empty one (vss. 15, 18)?
Though you may have
certain rights as a full-time Christian worker/minister/evangelist to receive
certain material or financial things from people because of your ministry, do you
forego them in order to not make your boast/claim of ministering willingly and
freely an empty one, and why?
1 Cor. 15:30, 31 Whom did Paul boast in?
Do you boast/rejoice in the Christians whom you’ve spiritually labored among
because of their changed lives being more Christ-like?
Phil. 3:3 Who are the true
circumcision (Jews spiritually)?
Are you glorying (boasting
and exulting) in Christ Jesus and not putting confidence in yourself (your
human abilities and achievements) for your being made right with God?
2 Cor. 1:12-14 What was Paul and Timothy’s
proud (joyful) confidence (vs. 12)?
Who
were these Corinthian’s reason to be proud (“kauchema” – rejoicing or boasting)?
Who
were Paul and Timothy’s reason to be proud (boasting or rejoicing), and
when?
What
or who will be your reason to be proud, boasting, or rejoicing in the day of
our Lord Jesus, and why?
2 Cor.
2 Cor. 7:4 What two things does
Paul express as being great?
Are
you eager to tell people how well certain Christians you know are doing or
behaving, and why?
If
so, when was the last time you did so?
How
often do you share with people the good that other Christian’s are doing?
2 Cor. 7:13-15 In
what was Paul not put to shame?
What
proved to be the truth?
Have
you ever been disappointed in your boasting (talking and praising) about
another person’s character?
If
so, how did you handle yourself or the situation?
Or,
has your boasting about another Christian’s good qualities proved to be true?
2 Cor.
Have you ever told
another Christian to exhibit or evidence before other Christians the reason for
your boasting (talking and praising) about him/her? Why?
If so, what was
his/her response to your telling him/her to do this?
2 Cor. 9:2-5 About
what did Paul boast (talk and praise) regarding the Corinthians?
Have
you ever boasted about another Christian’s generosity? Or any other godly quality?
2 Cor. 10:8, 9 What had Paul been boasting
about (claiming)?
Why
could he do so?
Is
there anything that God has given you to build up other Christians that you’ve
been boasting about (claiming)?
If so, what? Why
are you boasting about it?
2 Cor. 10:12-16 The
only measure of authority and standard of comparison that these false teachers
had and used was their own puffed-up self-praise. But Paul wasn’t going to boast (make
claims) beyond his measure (i.e., he wasn’t going to credit himself with
the labors of others as though they were his own) as an apostle of
God. Instead, how would Paul boast?
Have you ever taken
the credit for yourself regarding the accomplishments of another Christian (like,
the conversion of someone you talked to about God but did not lead to Christ,
or the spiritual growth, maturity, or leadership abilities of someone you spent
a little bit of time with, but didn’t pour your life into as much as another
Christian had, which resulted in transforming that person’s life, which you are
now claiming as the product of your labors)? Why?
Paul boasts (makes
claims) about his labors in order to authenticate his apostleship and
expose the impostors. For what purpose
do you boast, if you do?
2 Cor.
Who
do you boast (praise) in, yourself or God?
When,
and why?
2 Cor. 11:8-12 What boasting (claim) of Paul’s wouldn’t be stopped (vs.
9)?
Paul wanted to cut
off occasion or opportunity (that is, getting money for preaching the
gospel) from those who desired an opportunity to be regarded just as we
are, namely true apostles, in the matter about which they are boasting (being
an apostle) though these people were really false apostles, verses 12, 13.
Have you ever refused
accepting something that you rightfully deserved as a Christian worker in
order to prevent others (religious people or carnal Christians) from
abusing or taking unnecessary advantage of a good thing or getting into Christian
work for the wrong motives?
If
so, what?
2 Cor. 11:16-30 Paul, in defending his
apostleship, resorts to the same method of defense as do the false teachers –
boasting (making showy claims).
Paul, however, explains this to the Corinthians by saying what (vss.
16-18)?
How did Paul think
that some might view him for his using this method to defend his apostleship
against the false teachers (vss. 16, 21)?
Was Paul right or
wrong in boasting about himself in order to prove his point that he was as
great as, if not greater an apostle than, any of those who were claiming to be
apostles? Why?
Have you ever done
what Paul did for any similar reason? Or for any reason? If so, what and why?
What does Paul say in
concluding this method of defense (vs. 30)?
Do you boast (brag)
about your learning, eloquence, or personal advantage, or of your real
weaknesses, sufferings, and privations, and why?
2 Cor. 12:1-9 What does Paul
say is necessary (vs. 1), though it’s not profitable (personally
becoming, suitable, or proper for Paul)?
What
does Paul say about boasting (making claims to build oneself up or another)
in verses 5 and 6?
Why
does Paul refrain from boasting (bragging)? Is this why you refrain from
boasting too?
Why
would Paul most gladly boast about (rejoice in) his weaknesses rather
than seek deliverance?
Have you ever boasted
(rejoiced) in your weaknesses because you realized that these weaknesses
were the condition for you experiencing Christ’s power in and through your
life? If
so, when?
2 Thes. 1:3, 4 Why did
Paul, Silvanus, and Timothy speak proudly (“kauchaomai”
– boast fully or praisingly) of these Thessalonians?
Do you ever speak
proudly of your trainees or other Christians who have godly qualities or show
spiritual progress?
If
so, how often, and why?
Jer.
If someone is going to boast, what should he/she boast about?
Is
this what you are boasting of, and why?
James 1:9 What should the
economically poor Christian glory (boast, exalt, rejoice) in?
If you are an
economically poor Christian, are you glorying (boasting) in your
spiritual wealth (i.e., love, joy, peace – Gal.
Matt. 11:29; 2 Cor. 10:1 Is saying that you are gentle,
meek or humble in heart boasting (bragging) or wrong, and why?
Psa. 10:3 What does the wicked
person boast of (“halal” – greatly praise)?
What
do the non-Christian’s that you know boast of, or what is the heart’s desire of
non-Christians (Matt.
Have
you ever boasted about any of these or other sinful things, and why?
Prov. 25:14 To what is a person who
boasts (brags; praises oneself – “halal”) of
his gifts falsely compared?
Do
you ever boast (brag) about your gifts, talents, abilities, etc. falsely
(in an exaggerated way), and why?
James 4:13-16; Prov. 27:1 All of what kind of boasting (exalting or rejoicing)
is evil?
Do you ever boast (exalt)
in your arrogance (forgetting that life depends on the will of God and
failing to acknowledge dependency on God and instead, pridefully and
independently stating the definiteness of your future), and why?
Doesn’t boasting in
the surety of what will happen to you tomorrow imply that you’re setting
yourself up as God?
If
so, how?
Rom.
Are
you failing to acknowledge God any longer because of the success or
fruitfulness of your ministry, job, or relationships, and thinking that it’s
your own intellect, abilities, or skills that are making you successful and
therefore boastful? Why?
What
does Paul tell Timothy that people will be in the last days before Christ
returns (2 Tim. 3:2)?
Do
you see this taking place? If so, how?
Rom.
Do you have reason to
boast (praise yourself) about your being justified (saved)
because of something that you did to merit or earn it? Why (
1 Cor. 1:26-30 Why
did God primarily choose weak, and insignificant things (i.e., people)
of the world to confound the wise, mighty, and the great?
By
whose doing are you in Christ Jesus (saved)?
Knowing this then,
can you boast about and contribute your salvation to your own wisdom, birth,
position, or anything else of your doing (Eph. 2:8, 9)? Why (Rom.
1 Cor. 3:19-23 The Corinthians were ready
to pride themselves on their wisdom and on the teachers to whom they attached
themselves, but why shouldn’t these Corinthians boast (trust in as the
ground of confidence or as the source of honor or blessedness) in men?
[So far from enriching themselves by staking their
claim to exclusive rights in one teacher, the Corinthians
were impoverishing themselves; Paul puts no limits to their possessions in
Christ.].
Do you boast in (trust in as the ground of
confidence or as the source of honor or blessedness) certain Christian
people or in the Lord, and why?
1 Cor. 5:6 What boasting (bragging)
was the Corinthian church involved in that was not good (4:6-8, 18, 19; 5:1,
2)?
Do you ever boast of
your superior religious condition, state, or attainment (at least, superior
in your mind, though you’re probably not)?
Why?