Fools and the Foolish
“Fool” (Heb. “kesil”, “ewil”;
Gk. “aphron”, “anoetos”, “moros”, “asunetos”) – is a
person who is reckless and has an inconsiderate habit of mind; a person who
lacks common sense perception of the reality of things natural and spiritual;
one who is rash or senseless; morally worthless. One who is arrogant, flippant, and mentally dull (Heb. “ewil”).
Or, one who is characterized by a dull and closed mind and is
stubborn; stupid (Heb. “kesil”).
Prov.
1:7 What do
fools despise?
Do you
despise these things? If not,
how do you show/demonstrate that you don’t?
Prov.
Do you
hate knowledge/info? Would your answer
depend upon what type of knowledge it is?
Explain.
Prov.
Since this is so, would you qualify to being
on your way to destruction because of your complacency (being self-satisfied and, therefore, unaware of dangers regarding
various people, situations, choices, associations, and beliefs), and why?
Prov.
Do you display/exhibit
dishonor (shame, loss of respect from others) because of how you act,
talk, or conduct yourself? If
you’re not sure, how could you find out?
Prov.
8:5 What are
fools told to discern?
Are
you pursuing wisdom (i.e., the best or proper application of knowledge
and/or facts)? If
so, how?
Prov.
10:1 What does it
say about a foolish son?
How
are you viewed by your parents, and why?
Prov.
10:8, 14 What does it say
about a babbling fool?
Have you
ever fallen into sin, rough circumstances, or physical harm because of your
mouth?
If so,
what happened?
Prov.
Would
you qualify? Why do you
think that the person who spreads slander/lies is a fool?
Prov.
Do you know of anyone who has
physically been harmed or killed because of a lack of understanding or judgment
in what he/she said to someone else? Or,
have you?
Prov.
Which is
like sport (enjoyable) to you: sinning or properly applying knowledge
and moral truth, and why?
Prov.
How do
you view the choices you make in life, and why?
Before
you make important decisions, do you seek and listen to the counsel of godly
Christians, and why?
Prov.
Does your anger control you so that you openly
show it immediately in indecent expressions of word or actions? Why?
What could he/she do to change (Eph.
Prov.
Do you
proclaim and display a lack of sense or rational conduct?
How
did you determine your answer?
Prov.
How do
you really, deep down feel about departing from your favorite sins, and why?
Prov.
Has
this ever happened to you because you hung around fools? If so, what happened to you?
Prov.
14:1 What does
the foolish woman do?
Are you or do you know of a housewife (or wife) who because of wastefulness, partying, lack of planning and preparation, laziness, and/or irresponsibility has impoverished or ruined her home?
Prov.
14:3 What is in
the mouth of the foolish?
Are your words ever prideful or condemning of others without biblical justification so that it backfires on you by having others smite/strike you back either by word or action? If so, when?
Prov.
14:7 Why should
we leave the presence of a fool?
[Fools speak and act unwisely and, therefore, will
taint/corrupt your perception of what’s proper, right, and/or best.].
Has your ability to discern (whose
counsel, instruction, information is good, right, bad, or wrong) been
hindered because of your hanging around fools too long?
Prov.
14:8 What is the
folly of fools?
Do you
ever represent or state as true what you know to be false or a lie? If so,
why?
Prov.
14:9 What do
fools mock at?
Do you
ever laugh at or make fun of the committing of sin whether it’s by you or
someone else, and why?
Prov.
Are
you this way? How did you
determine your answer?
Do you
think other people view you as arrogant and/or careless, and why?
Prov.
Is
this ever true of you? If so,
why do you think you are this way?
Prov.
15:5 What does a
fool reject?
Have
you ever rejected this? Why?
Prov.
Do you
despise yours, and why?
Prov.
17:7;
Why do you think it’s
unfitting for a fool (Heb. “nabal” – one who lacks
spiritual perception) to declare God’s truths or what’s proper?
Or, why do you think luxury is
inappropriate for a fool?
Prov.
Why do
you think a fool doesn’t learn from being disciplined/punished?
Prov.
Why do you think this is so?
Prov.
[I.e., Why
would a fool want to acquire wisdom when he has no genuine desire for it?]
Do you have a genuine desire
to acquire wisdom, or are you a fool who really doesn’t care, and how is either
of your answers demonstrated?
Prov.
[Whereas wisdom is a priority
and treasured possession of the person of understanding, the fool never
discovers wisdom, as his affections are scattered all over.].
Are your affections scattered
all over the world (e.g., traveling, money-making, illicit sex, drugs,
partying, eating, drinking, materialism, sports-mania, computer-crazy, etc.),
or is wisdom a priority and treasured possession of your life, and why?
Prov.
Why is
this so?
Prov.
18:2 What doesn’t
and what does a fool delight in?
Do you eagerly try to
understand people, political and theological positions, etc., or, do you like
to only share your own views on various issues, and why?
Prov.
18:6, 7 What does it say
about a fool’s lips and mouth?
Do you things you say often
create needless arguments, bring you into physical harm, destroy your
reputation and/or career, or get you into serious trouble, and why?
Prov.
19:1 Who is
better than a fool that is perverse in speech?
Are you rash, reckless,
senseless, and say things that are improper/twisted/not right or good?
If you’re not sure, how could
you find out?
Prov.
19:3 What does
the foolishness of a person do?
Has
your way/life ever been
undermined or corrupted because of your foolishness/careless?
If so,
give an example.
Prov.
20:3 What will
any fool do?
Do you
ever engage in noisy, heated, angry disputes, and why?
Prov.
Do you
swallow up your paycheck, savings, or income in wasteful spending, and why?
Why is it foolish to wastefully spend the money or resources God
gives you?
Prov.
Was it
(or is it still) bound up in you, and
why?
Prov.
23:9 What
shouldn’t a person do, and why?
Have
you ever tried to teach/instruct/educate a fool (a stubborn, closed-minded,
dull person)?
If so,
what happened?
Prov.
24:7 What is too
high for or beyond a fool?
[“in the gate” – the city gate, where legal and judicial decisions were made by wise leaders.].
Have you ever known of a fool (an arrogant, mentally dull, hardened person) who comprehended or spoke anything wise?
Prov.
26:1 What is not
fitting for a fool?
[Putting
a fool in a position of honor is inappropriate and may injure others who follow
him as a model.].
Do you
know of any fools who were put in a position of honor? If so, what happened?
Prov.
26:4, 5 What shouldn’t
and what should we do, and why?
Do you exaggerate if a fool exaggerates, or do you yell and use foul language if a fool yells and uses foul language on you? Why?
Do you answer a fool aptly and factually rather than remain silent when a fool presents an argument that he/she thinks will stump you? Why?
[E.g., If a fool says the Bible is full of contradictions or has been corrupted or changed so that you can’t trust it any longer, or that evolution is a scientific fact, you should answer him and disprove his foolish objections to God’s Word.].
Prov.
26:6 Who cuts off
his/her own feet, and drinks violence?
Why
do you think this is so?
Have
you ever done this, and if so, what happened?
Prov. 26:7, 9 What is like the useless legs which hang down from the lame (i.e.,
of no personal value) or a self-inflicting thorn which falls into the hand
of a drunkard (i.e., injurious to himself)?
Have
you ever heard a proverb in the mouth of a fool? If so, what was said?
Prov.
26:8 What is a
person like who binds a stone in a sling?
[Just as it is useless to tie
a stone in a sling since it can’t be used like that, so giving honor to a fool
is a waste of speech since it’s inappropriate also.].
Have
you ever given a fool honor? If so, when and why?
Prov.
26:10 Who is like an
archer who wounds everyone?
Why
would this be the case?
Prov.
26:11 What is a fool
who repeats his folly like?
Have
you ever returned to or repeated a gross sin? If so, why?
How
can you prevent this if you’re a Christian (Eph.
Prov.
27:3 What is
heavier than a stone or sand?
Have
you ever been provoked (incited to anger) by a fool?
What
should a wise person do in this kind of situation, and why?
Prov.
27:22 Though you
pound a fool in a mortar with a pestle along with crushed grain, what won’t
depart from him/her?
Why do
you think this is so?
Prov.
28:26 Who is a fool?
Do you trust in your emotions when
making decisions or in God’s Word, the Bible or in the counsel of godly, obedient,
biblically-knowledgeable Christians, and why?
Prov.
29:9 What happens
when a wise person has a controversy with a foolish person?
Has
this ever happened to you? What
happened?
Prov.
29:11 What does a
fool always do?
Do
you? Why?
Prov.
30:32 Who should put
his/her hand on his/her mouth?
Do you
ever do this? Why?
Psalm
14:1 What has the
fool said?
Why do
you think he/she says this?