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DEFINING ABUSE
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GROWING UP
   * Mixed Messages
    * Helpful Hints for Assertive Behavior
    * Lack of Empathy
    * Why is it so difficult to speak my mind with  those who matter most?
     * Family Game of Denial
     * Inconsistency & Unpredictability
     * Role Reversal
     * The Closed Family System

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SEXUAL ABUSE
     * Effects Of Sexual Abuse
      * Lost of Self Esteem

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DEPRESSION
      * What Is Depression?
       * Types of depression
       * What Are the Symptoms of Depression?
       * Recognizing the Signs of Suicide
       * What to do if someone you know is    thinking of suicide?

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SELF-INJURY
      * How do you know if you self-iinjure?
       * Classifying self-harm
       * How do I know if I'm ready to stop?
       * Help for families and friends
       * So what do I do instead?
       * References

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THE HEALING JOURNEY
              * Self-Esteem Booster
               * Celebrate your strengths to raise   your self esteem
               * Questions to ask yourself to survey   your self esteem
               * What names do you call yourself?
               * Essence of Forgiveness
               * Honoring the Child you were

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CHANGING PATTERNS
            * Past Becomes Present
               * Common Patterns in Adult Survivors
               * What is normal?
               * Feelings: Necessary part of life
               * Panic: Calming Down
               * Guilt & Shame
               * What is guilt?
               * What is anxiety?
               * What is panic disorder?
               * Panic attack symptoms
               * Anger management tips
               * Boundaries
               * Signs of ignored boundaries
               * Rational boundary building thinking
               * How to establish healthy boundaries
               * Ten ways to build your self esteem
               * How to increase your self esteem

       
      * Self Acceptance
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GETTING SUPPORT
            * The Different Therapy Styles and Theoretical Orientations
                * What type of therapist do you need?
                * Choosing a counselor/therapist
                * Partners/Supporters of Survivors of  Child Abuse
                * Support Groups
                * 10 Steps to protect yourself online
                * How to help? (Friend or Family)
                * Sources for you (supporter/partner)  to receive support
                * Support groups Links

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DATE RAPE
           * What is Acquaintance Rape?
               * Things You Oughta Know About
               * Date Rape Drugs
               * Protecting Yourself from Date Rape   Drugs

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               * Pitfalls of Life
               * Strings of family
               * Remembering..rage against mother
               * Working through mother blame
               * The Child Within
               * "please-aholic" how does one stop?
               * Memories...........
               * Rambling about parenthood
               * Are our kids safe?
               * IS Happiness A conscience Choice?
               * Excerise: I don't remember
               * A spark of anger.. I MATTER
               * Evolution of Childhood
               * “I committed no crime”
               * What kind of mother am I?

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