chapter 37
SHOULD KIDS BE
TAUGHT A RELIGION WHEN THEY ARE VERY YOUNG?
Let us examine the implications
of raising children with NO specific religion but rather that they be
raised in a kind of religious vacuum. The obvious if naive hope would be that we
would generate a whole new group of young people, full of compassion and love
and that there would be no longer bigotry or prejudice. We would all live in
harmony and life would be beautiful.
It is a kind of spinoff from
the beautiful and poetic fantasy of the American naturalist--the one who says
that we should leave it ALL to Nature who or which would allow us to develop
with a lovely wholeness undiscovered by the religions of history. Sounds nice
but is totally unrealistic from the point of view of an traditional Catholic
like me. This is simply because I (and millions like me ) believe in a WOUNDED
HUMAN NATURE which is always hurt and inclined toward evil even in the pristine
air of the mountain top. So put me in the forest. Give me just a loin cloth. Let
me develop naturally and you will see--not a noble savage--but a ruthless, self
centered human monster. Alas, human nature has discovered this somewhat brutal
reality whether in Freud or the kibbutz or in the protected walls of the
nunnery.
We NEED laws or strictures or
boundaries or commandments to socialize us. This is why religion on an
institutional level has always been considered a must for a stable society. So,
my advice is (take heed you simpletons out there), give your kids SOME religion.
Give them something clear and definite. Give them something to hang onto. There
is no such thing as a completely self reliant person or the completely independant
person. We ALL need structure of belief and virtue. Teach them about God and His
love and mercy. If in adulthood they wish to rebel, they can, at least, rebel
against something The "vacuum" type person is sadly without an entity to rebel against. There is the unhappy atheist who can't even thank God when he
feels grateful. Give your kid something to believe when he inevitably encounters
the big smashing difficulties of human experience. Have a heart, for Pete's sake
or for you kid's sake but more precisely for God's sake.
At least some kids got religion early!