I also love long hair. I've grown mine as long as it would grow; mid-back length. I prefer to see very long hair hanging below the waist, but I do not expect the other person to have long hair, just to accept mine, and that I will look and enjoy it when I see it.
Besides my fuzzy fetish, here are some other important aspects of my personality. I am intelligent, sensitive, honest and sincere. I am very idealistic: pacifist/non-violent, environmentalist, non-sexist, non-racist, non-agist, non-jealous, not into looksism. I like good, healthy, clean living: healthy food, no drugs, no smoking, no alcohol, ONLY SAFE sex. Although I am not athletic, I love long walks. My main interest is personal sharing and getting to know people deeply, honestly and intimately. Not into non-intimate pastimes like games, sports, TV, etc. I like movies with "heart", meaning, an uplifting message; no violence. I like comedy and humor, but no jokes that are aimed to be at anybody's expense. I like LOTS of sex, but only in the context of relationships where we know each other well and care deeply about each other. I don't pay attention to gender; I just like universally human qualities, like honesty, integrity, and cuddly affectionateness. I don't believe in exclusivity, nor jealousy, just deep caring and honesty.
I was 11 when I discovered my strong attraction to fuzzies. But there were no soft furry fluffy items in my household, not even a soft blanket! (We had only scratchy army blankets!) I did not get to hold or touch, much less wear, a fuzzy sweater (nor any other soft fuzzy item) until I was old enough to earn the money, drive myself to the store alone, and buy myself some. I could only look at them longingly, being worn by girls in school who definitely did NOT want me touching them. And even when I did buy myself fuzzies, of course, I could not afford angora or fur back then. No angora or fur were available for men, anyway! I had mohair. A men's mohair sweater, and a fluffy scarf, that I could wear in public.
I wear fluffyness because it turns me on, and because the softness invites people to stroke it and it encourages them to hug me more deliciously. I also spent most of my life in eager hopeful anticipation, waiting to meet the special person(s) who would say to me that they are so turned on by my fluffyness that they can't keep their hands off it and me. I also looked in vain for people wearing fuzzies that would welcome my enthusiastic interest and not want me to take my hands off of them. It took me 40 long lonely frustrated years of searching and hoping to find other fuzzy lovers around the next bend, until I finally learned that we fuzzy lovers are so few and spread out around the globe, so we can find each other only via the internet.
But more important than just being a sensual turn-on, to me soft fluffyness has great symbolic (even spiritual) meaning. To me it means emotional safety and security, innocence, intimacy, and cuddly affectionateness. Nobody told me that. It has just always meant that to me. And at some level, it must mean something like that, at least a little bit, to many people. You must have heard people talking about having "warm and fuzzy" feelings. That is why it turns me on! Because to me that is not just a cliche saying. That is what soft fluffyness literally means to me!
[To understand where the phrase feeling "warm and fuzzy" came from, please click on "Warm Fuzzy Tale" at the right.]
I have a huge collection of hundreds of fluffy angora, mohair, and cashmere sweaters, and dozens of furs, but only relatively few are in good enough condition to wear in public. Many of the rest of the fluffy sweaters and almost all of the furs are just for playing with in bed. But after 40 years of collecting, I have so many that most are really just to have in the collection. I have a closet and shelves full of them. My room is lined with wall-to-wall floor-to-ceiling shelves full of fluffies. I can't stand to even get rid of the old ones I have worn out. I have been able to collect so many because they are mostly used, from thrift stores, swapmeets, garage sales, and Ebay. I have only in more recent years been able to afford to indulge in brand new 100% angora sweaters. I now have over a dozen super-fluffy new 100% angora sweaters and even a pair of 100% angora pants. I also just recently added a new favorite, a full-lenth fox fur coat that fits me!
My favorite, pictured above, is hand-spun hand-knit 100% angora from angoraknitforyou.com. It is huge! About 60 inches around. The sleeves are long enough to cover my hands, the hem is long enough to cover my privates, and the shawl collar is long enough to cover my head as a hood. I also have a more normally sized white turtleneck from the same place. I like my sweaters large and loose so I can feel the fluff loosely rubbing against my skin. Unfortunately, since most angora sweaters were made for smaller women, most of my collection is small on me, but I still wear them to feel the fluffyness. Since cashmere and mohair sweaters are made for men, I have several large ones I wear in public more frequently. I like cashmere because it is so soft and also light and thin enough that I can wear it even on warmer days. But angora is sexier to me because it is thicker and fluffier and furrier, and fluffyness is what turns me on.
I also have artistic alpaca fur rugs on the walls in my living room and hall, and alpaca fur pillows on the couches, as well as on my bed.