By GREGORY RUMMO
AT
THIS TIME of the year, we celebrate the
memories of several famous Americans: George Washington,
Abraham Lincoln, and Martin Luther King Jr. These men
influenced American society profoundly during their lifetimes.
So
great was the impact of their words and actions
during their lives that their influence continues to this day.
It is right to honor their legacies. But it is a mistake to
think that legacies are reserved only for the famous, the
influential, the rich, or politicians.
During the latter half of his second term in
the White House, Bill Clinton was obsessed over his legacy.
While there are widely differing opinions over what his legacy
should reflect, the fact remains that he was correct to be
concerned about it. This view is shared by New York Times
best-selling author Paul J. Meyer in his new book "Unlocking
Your Legacy" (Moody Press, 2002).
Although now a highly successful writer and
a leading self-improvement author with more than $2 billion of
his programs sold in more than 60 countries, Meyer, the son of
first-generation German immigrants, started life in a tent.
Born in San Mateo, Calif., in 1928 into a blue-collar family,
he didn't come into the world with a silver spoon in his
mouth. With few possessions, life was a struggle.
Nevertheless, Meyer's parents used that as an opportunity to
instill into their son an appreciation for life's blessings, a
diligent work ethic, and a strong faith in God.
One of the earliest lessons he learned was
that all men are created equal. This worldview went on to
shape the way he viewed all of life's circumstances. "Whoever
heard of being raised with no prejudice, no color lines, and
no educational lines?" he writes. "Is that even possible? I
would doubt it, except for the fact that I was the one raised
this way. My parents taught me that everyone stood on level
ground and from that one truth many other principles were
driven into my formative heart and mind." Meyer's thesis is
that there are only four things each of us will leave behind:
Memories, the thoughts that others have of us,
souvenirs; the proof of our existence, trophies;
the records of our achievements; legacies.
"Eventually," he writes, "memories will fade
and souvenirs and trophies will be lost, stolen or sold at
garage sales. Only your legacy will remain." A legacy is
defined as "something handed down from one generation to the
next." But that "something," Meyer explains, includes our
traits, habits, talents, and our social, physical, mental,
spiritual, and emotional attitudes. "In essence, everything
you are and possess today, whether good or bad, is your
legacy." This fact is inescapable: All of us will leave a
legacy behind. Our goal then must be to develop a good one.
Although this takes work, Meyer contends
that anyone is capable, even the person who never had a good
legacy left to him. "Whatever your history, tomorrow is your
future [and] your future can be absolutely anything you want
it to be." Likening a good legacy to a safety-deposit box
filled with valuables, he writes: "It is only natural that the
owner of a safety deposit box would tell the recipient what is
in it, how everything works, and why it is so important."
The book explains in detail how a truly good
legacy must be based on godly principles such as love,
equality, gratitude, and a positive self-image. Meyer's
foundation for building a strong legacy is the Word of God,
and his book is salted liberally with Scripture verses.
The Bible has much to say about legacies. It
is in fact a book of legacies, both bad and good. The stories
of many people from different walks of life in all kinds of
situations are recorded for us to read and learn from. There
are some real surprises tucked away in the Scriptures.
We see Noah as the righteous and obedient
shipbuilder saving his family and the animals of the Earth
only to get drunk when the flood was over; the great King
David -a man described as after the heart of God -leading
Israel into one military victory after another only to fall
into the sins of adultery and murder; and the harlot Rahab,
described by the New Testament writer James as being
"justified by works when she received the messengers and sent
them out another way" (James 2:25).
The Bible portrays events as they actually
happened with God's running commentary alongside. There can be
no doubt about the quality of the legacies left behind by
these men and women.
Meyer concludes: "Like my father, someday my
legacy will also be my history, so until that day comes I am
doing everything within my power to leave behind a good
legacy."
Solomon warned: "The memory of the righteous
is blessed, but the name of the wicked will rot" (Proverbs
10:7). That warning was meant for us all, not just the famous,
the influential, the rich, or politicians. n
Gregory Rummo belongs to
Madison Avenue Baptist Church in Paterson. He is the author of
"The View
From the Grass Roots," published by American Book
Publishing. You may e-mail him
at TheRecordReligion@northjersey.com