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The Wedding Cake

Beginning in early Roman times, the cake has been a special part of the wedding celebration. 

A thin loaf was broken over the bride's head at the close of the ceremony to symbolize fertility.  The wheat from which it was made, symbolized fertility and the guests eagerly picked up the crumbs as good luck charms. 

This tradition evolved and spread to England in the Middle Ages where the guests of a wedding would bring small cakes and stack them together. 

During the Middle Ages, it became traditional for the couple to kiss over a small cluster of cakes.  Later, a clever baker decided to amass all these small cakes together, covering them with frosting.  Thus, the modern tiered cake was born. 

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The Cake Feeding

The wedding cake represents the sharing of the bride and groom's body to become one. 

The bride and groom make the first cut of the wedding cake to signify sharing their life together. 

Feeding each other the cake symbolizes how the couple will "feed" and nourish the relationship for the rest of their lives. 

Now, this was meant as loving and caring symbol for each other. 

Every guest then eats at least a crumb of the cake to ensure good luck. 

And if a single woman sleeps with a piece of wedding cake under her pillow, she will dream of her future husband. 

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