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The Wedding Dance

Ancient wedding dances were communal and symbolic of life giving and beginnings. 

The first dance of the bride and groom leading to their dancing with the guests was to give them strength from the community before they retired to the bedchamber.

At the evening celebrations, the bride and groom traditionally dance first on their own to a waltz.

However, as ballroom dancing is not so popular these days, the newlyweds usually dance to a favorite romantic song. 

During the playing of this song, it is traditional for the groom to dance with his new mother-in-law and then with his mother, while the bride dances with her new father-in-law and then with her father.

The best man also joins in dancing with the chief bridesmaid and the ushers with the other bridesmaids when the bride and groom first change. 

After the first dance, all the guests are invited to join the newlyweds on the dance floor.

And dance we did!

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The Dancing

Kristen's and Sean's
 Wedding Dance

>> Our First Dance Audio

Let me tell you why I fell in love with you...
because you were the person
 I had always dreamed of,
because you were not at all what I expected,
because I looked into your eyes 
and saw my soul's companion.

I fell in love with you because I heard your voice 
and knew I'd found my heart's desire,
because you could make me laugh 
and kiss away my tears,
because you were strong 
and didn't need to prove it.

I fell in love with you 
because you were wise beyond your years,
but would always be a little kidl,
because I wanted to understand you, 
but you would always remain a mystery.

I fell in love with you in one moment...
I married you 
because I needed a lifetime to tell you why.

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A Dance with Daddy's Little Girl

>> One More Time Audio

Daughter, Woman – Child, Angel of the Heart
You are the strength of the future
and the Beauty of past Memories.
You are Love, and Light, and Hope.
You are Life’s Sweetest Gift
an unbelievable and precious Miracle.

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>> To Our Family & Friends Audio

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Sean's Dance with His Mom

You are the Mother I received
the day I wed your son.
And I just want to thank you, Mom,
for the things that you have done.

You have given me a gracious man
with whom I share my life.
You are his lovely Mother
and I his lucky wife.

You used to pat his little head
and now I hold his hand.
You raised in love a little boy
then gave to me a man.

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A full service hosted bar service was available in the main salon, and a digital, state of the art sound system played  dance favorites to create a nightclub atmosphere, second to none. 

Kristen in her Cinderella glass slippers,
danced her socks off at her wedding.

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>> A Wedding Thank You Audio

" Marriage, families, all relationships 
are more a process of learning the dance 
rather than finding the right dancer."

~ Paul Pearsall

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