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Pearls of Marriage Wisdom

Wedded Bliss is a verb:

Love
Aloha
Endure
Honor
Challenge
Laugh
Cry
Respect
Cherish
Nurture
Stand
Love
Adore
Learn
Comfort
Support
Uplift
Encourage
Join
Accept
Give
Offer
Strive
Work
Experience
Promise
Share
Embrace
Develop

Wedded Bliss 
is a noun:

Love
Aloha
Teacher
Fan
Buddy
Friend
Partner
Teammate
Soul Mate
Beloved
Best Friend
Growth
Freedom
Spirit
Reverence
Faith
Symbol
Beauty
Peace
Understanding
Joy
Eternity
Respect
Trust
Integrity
Partnership
Forever

Wedded Bliss
is an adjective.

Dearest
Priceless
Loveliest
True
Happy
Eternal
Joyful
Enduring
Everlasting
Holy
Hopeful

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Anniversaries

1st

Paper

2nd

Cotton

3rd

Leather

4th

Linen

5th

Wood

6th

Iron

7th

Wool

8th

Bronze

9th

Pottery

10th

Tin

11th

Steel

12th

Silk

13th

Lace

14th

Ivory

15th

Crystal

20th

China

25th

Silver

30th

Pearl

35th

Coral

40th

Ruby

45th

Sapphire

50th

Gold

55th

Emerald

60th

Diamond

We expect to be invited to your Diamond Anniversary, when we'll be 110 years old!

Synchronicity strikes, again!

I see that our next round-number is the Pearl Anniversary...

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of 
Kristen & Sean's Marriage  

In Hawaiian culture, we believe that guests are invited to a wedding for a sacred purpose; not just to witness, but to participate fully with their mana`o -- thoughts -- and blessings. 

>> A Message for Kristen and Sean:
Pearls of Wisdom: 
 The Art of Marriage

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"May a flock of blessings light upon thy backs."
~ Shakespeare

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We invoke thy gentlest blessings, O God, 
on all true lovers. 

We thank you for the revealing power of love, 
which divines in the one beloved the mystic beauty,
 and glory of humanity. 

We thank you for the transfiguring power of love, 
which ripens and ennobles our nature, 
calling forth the hidden stores 
of tenderness and strength and, 
overcomes selfishness 
by the passion of self-surrender.

May the love of Kristen and Sean be strong, 
that no misunderstanding loosen the bond 
and no passing of the years 
have the power to dim the light 
that now glows in them. 

May they early gain wisdom
 to discern the true values of life, 
and may no circumstances 
take from them the wholesome peace 
and inward satisfaction which only love can give.

Grant them vision to look beyond this moment 
to the generations yet to come, 
and to know that the home they create 
will be part of the sacred body of humanity
 in which you dwell, 
that they may have reverence 
for others and for themselves, 
and drink the cup of joy with awe.

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As you join in marriage, 
may life always be a shared adventure, 
marked by a sense of personal freedom, 
as well as mutual responsibility.  

May you find in each other companionship as well as love; understanding as well as compassion; 
challenge as well as agreement. 

May the home you establish be an island where the pressures of the world can be sorted out 
and brought into focus; 
where tensions can be released and understood; 
where personal needs do not tower over concern for others and where the warmth of humor and love 
puts crisis into perspective. 

And above all, 
may you find an ever richer joy
 in loving and learning together.

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"May these rich blessings be your due...
A wealth of friendships, old and new,
quiet nights and busy days, 
time for prayer and time for praise,
some service rendered, some solace given,
and gentle peace with God and heaven."

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May a house of love be always yours,
May you heed each others’ wishes
May pleasures come in twos and fours
And quarrels end in kisses.

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"Love one another, 
but make not a bond of that love. 
Let it rather be like a moving sea 
between the shores of your souls. 

And stand together, and yet not too near together. 
For even the pillars of the temple must stand apart; 
and the oak tree and the cypress 
will not grow in each other's shadow. 

Remember that love gives nothing but from itself. 
Love possesses not, nor would it be possessed,
 for love is sufficient unto love. 

And think not that you can direct the course of love. 
For love, if it finds you worthy, will direct your course."
~ Kahlil Gibran

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Apache Blessing


Now you will feel no rain 
for each of you will be  shelter for the other.

Now you will feel no cold 
for each of you will be warmth for the other.

Now there is no loneliness for you, 
now you are two persons 
but there is only one life before you.

Go now to your dwelling place 
to enter into the days of your togetherness,
and may your days be good and long together.

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>> Celtic Wedding Blessing

>> Fantasy Wedding Blessing

>> Scottish Wedding Blessing

Go now in peace in love, and may these things touch your hearts, and be with you through the days of your life together.

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May you keep looking at each other with "soft eyes" 
 of compassion and loving kindness.

 

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