Type Seven - The Enthusiast
Profile by Don Richard Riso and Russ Hudson - The Enneagram Institute
The Busy, Fun-Loving Type: Spontaneous, Accomplished, Excessive, and Manic
Basic Fear: Of being deprived and
in pain
Basic Desire: To be satisfied and content to have their needs
fulfilled
The Seven with a Six-Wing: "The Entertainer"
The Seven with an Eight-Wing: "The Realist"
Potential Neuroses: Histrionic, Borderline, Antisocial, and
Manic-Depressive Personality Disorders
Key Motivations: Want to maintain their freedom and happiness, to avoid missing out on worthwhile experiences, to keep themselves excited and occupied, to avoid and discharge pain.
Healthy
Highly responsive, excitable, enthusiastic about sensation and
experience. Most extroverted type: stimuli bring immediate
responses they find everything invigorating. Lively, vivacious,
eager, spontaneous, resilient, cheerful. Easily become
accomplished achievers, generalists who do many different things
well: multi-talented. Practical, productive, usually prolific,
cross-fertilizing areas of interest. At Their Best: Assimilate
experiences in depth, making them deeply grateful and
appreciative for what they have. Become awed by the simple
wonders of life: joyous and ecstatic. Intimations of spiritual
reality, of the boundless goodness of life.
Average
As restlessness increases, want to have more options and choices
available to them. Become adventurous and "worldly
wise," but less focused, constantly seeking new things and
experiences: the sophisticate, connoisseur, and consumer. Money,
variety, keeping up with the latest trends important. Unable to
discriminate what they really need, become hyperactive, unable to
say "no" to themselves, throwing self into constant
activity. Uninhibited, doing and saying whatever comes to mind:
storytelling, flamboyant exaggerations, witty wise-cracking,
performing. Fear being bored: in perpetual motion, but do too
many thingsmany ideas but little follow through. Get into
conspicuous consumption and all forms of excess. Self-centered,
materialistic, and greedy, never feeling that they have enough.
Demanding and pushy, yet unsatisfied and jaded. Addictive,
hardened, and insensitive.
Unhealthy
Desperate to quell their anxieties, can be impulsive and
infantile: do not know when to stop. Addictions and excess take
their toll: debauched, depraved, dissipated escapists, offensive
and abusive. In flight from self, acting out impulses rather than
dealing with anxiety or frustrations: go out of control, into
erratic mood swings, and compulsive actions (manias). Finally,
their energy and health is completely spent: become
claustrophobic and panic-stricken. Often give up on themselves
and life: deep depression and despair, self-destructive
overdoses, impulsive suicide.
Wings by Thomas Condon - The Changeworks
Seven With a 6 Wing
Healthy Sevens with a 6 wing are responsible, faithful, lovable,
nervous and funny. They are generally more oriented to
relationship and want to be accepted by other people. Can be
steady, more willing to stick with commitments; the 6 wing brings
a longer sense of time. Usually funny or enjoy a good laugh - an
amazing number of comedians are Sevens with a 6 wing. More openly
vulnerable, have an unguarded, tender sweetness. Some have
trouble expressing anger even when they are justified. May evade
or finesse authority but still aware of it like a 6. Canny and
practical, they look for the deals and the loopholes. When more
entranced, may have surprise episodes of sensitivity and
insecurity. Their feelings can be easily hurt sometimes.
Sensitive especially to comparisons. May avoid putting themselves
to the test. Grow dependent and addicted to other people, afraid
to be alone, suspicious and skittish. Can feel guilt easily, may
project their conscience onto others and then act irresponsibly.
Make themselves shallow, fall in and out of love easily.
Sometimes breezily betray others by running away. Can be
reckless, unstable, and self-destructive. When Sevens have a
counterphobic 6 wing their idealism can motivate a sincere desire
for social reform. May work hard for a cause. Can be
antiauthority, passive/aggressive, flippant, defiant. Some report
hating to be told what to do. Clashes with Ones likely. May call
down trouble on themselves. Complain about the status quo. The
realm of hippie rebellion.
Seven With an 8 Wing
When healthy, Sevens with an 8 wing are often generous,
gregarious and expansive. Tend to be exceptionally loyal to their
friends, especially when social subtype. Leap aggressively to the
defense of those they care for. Might seem loud or boisterous
although some are urbane and witty. Enjoy social celebrations,
storytelling, jokes, food and travel. Generally have a strong
self-confidence for worldly matters and getting what they want.
Talent for making something out of nothing - entrepreneurial.
Usually share what they have when healthy, want everyone to enjoy
their sense of bounty and wide
range of interests. When more entranced, they may be demanding,
displaying a selfish impatience and a self-justifying narcissism.
May want what they want right now. Aggressive, hasty drive to
acquire money and material options and recognition. Can demand
that the people in their lives say only what the Seven wants to
hear - sugarcoated truth. Lash out angrily if reality doesn't
meet their expectations; sometimes vengeful. Often
perfectionistic as parents (low side of 1). Moralize to others
and then are themselves irresponsible. Amnesia for promises made
in an expansive moment. Particular difficulty with sexual
fidelity.
Instinctual Variants by Thomas Condon - The Changeworks
Self-Preservation
Self-preservation Sevens are a little confusing since they tend
to be highly social. Characterized by a drive towards family and
shared group experiences. Enjoy operating within their real or
chosen family, checking in with a group of like-minded people.
Chronic sharing on a circuit. People in the group are the source
of interesting information and stimulation. Don't feel burdened
or trapped by duties like a social Seven. Loyal to family, often
have a 6 wing. Defend their circle and castle. Barricade, find
safety in numbers. This subtype goes with the image of the
"party animal."
Intimate
Intimate Sevens tend to garnish and embellish reality with
fantasy. Intimate relationships are often thought of as shared
experimental adventures, and the Seven perceives their partner
through a veil of imagination. May romanticize others as a way to
avoid the limits and boredom of mundane life with the same old
someone. Can be more involved with their fantasy of the partner
than with the real person. Tentative, distractible, impersonal,
may have a wandering eye. Some have great difficulty with
commitment and seem fickle as they move on to the next fantasy
projected onto the next new person. Don Juan scenario. More
generally, intimate Sevens have a tendency to be suggestible.
They may especially seek the new with the fascinated enthusiasm
of a faddist, stepping into future fantasies to avoid the
present.
Social
Social Sevens often feel a tension between duty to others and the
desire to escape. Tend to feel responsible for the people around
them and experience that as a confining burden. They then react
against the weight of obligation, seeking variety and craving
change. When entranced, can be highly irresponsible. When
awakened, they make peace with commitment and sacrifice and are
often very stable and generous. Often an idealism, sometimes a
stronger connection to 1. Serving something beyond themselves,
dutiful. Can be from a large family where they had lots of
responsibility, eldest child. With an 8 wing they tend to fight
the sense of burden harder.