One day an expert in time management was speaking to a group of business
students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students
will never forget.

As he stood in front of the group of high powered overachievers he said,
"Okay, time for a quiz." Then he pulled out a one-gallon, wide mouth mason
jar and set it on the table in front of him. Then he produced about a dozen
fist-sized rocks and carefully place them, one at a time, into the jar. When
the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked,
"Is this jar full?" Everyone in the class said, "Yes." Then he said,
"Really?" 

He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. Then he dumped
some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves
down into the space between the big rocks. Then he asked the group once
more, "Is the jar full?"

By this time the class was on to him. "Probably not," one of them answered.
"Good!" he replied. He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of
sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the
spaces left between the rock and the gravel.

Once more he asked the question, "Is this jar full?" "No!" the class
shouted. Once again he said, "Good." Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and
began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim.

Then he looked at the class and asked, "What is the point of this
illustration?" One eager beaver raised his hand and said, "The point is, no
matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit
some more things in it!" "No," the speaker replied, "that's not the point.

The truth this illustration teaches us is: If you don't put the big rocks in
first, you'll never get them in at all."

What are the 'big rocks' in your life? Time with your loved ones? Your
faith, your education, your dreams? A worthy cause? Teaching or mentoring
others? Remember to put these BIG ROCKS in first or you'll never get them in
at all.

So, tonight, or in the morning, when you are reflecting on this short story,
ask yourself this question: What are the 'big rocks' in my life?
Then, put those in your jar first.