The Druidess' Ethical
Guidebook
Chapter One: Respect
Respect is something to be initially given, not earned. One should
have a basic respect for all creatures and objects without any foreknowledge.
Therefore, one does not damage the property of another "just because."
One does not disrespect people one knows nothing about. "We don't
like what we don't understand, if fact it scares us... and this creature
is mysterious at least." (Beauty and the Beast)
While respect should be given in a general reference, there are specific
aspects of life that respect tends to lack significantly, in my experiences.
These are as follows:
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Personal space.
If someone asks you to leave them alone, it is generally a good idea.
Let them know that you are there for them, and go away. Also, have
respect for people's tolerance or desire for physical contact. More
often than not, giving a hug to someone who doesn't want it only proves
disrespectful of their wishes.
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Religion. As a
college student of an unique spirituality, I have tried multiple times
to explain my beliefs, only to find myself among hostile company.
One must remember that each person walks a different spiritual path, be
it Christian, Jewish, Islamic, Hindu, Wiccan, or another spirituality.
In such diverse times, one must have respect for all other religious viewpoints,
despite their differences from your own.
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Opposing viewpoints.
Diversity creates dimension in the world. That diversity manifests
itself in the opinions of people. People are opinionated creatures
by nature, and their opinions vary greatly on many topics. Each person
is entitled to their own opinion, no matter how much you disagree with
what they have to say.
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Aesthetics. Black and
silver may not be your colors of choice. But whomever chose those
colors did so for a reason. Whether or not you agree with a given
person's aesthetical choices is irrelevant. You should respect the
fact that someone out there likes whatever it is that you don't.
From clothes to decor, each of us has preferences. And I guarantee
that there is a person on this planet that doesn't like your choices, just
as much as you dislike another's. Respect what others think is pleasing
to the eye.
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Personal/Lifestyle choices.
Individuals desire different things from life. Not everyone aspires
to be rich, famous, and have a high-society job. There are women
in this world who want nothing more than to be stay-at-home mothers.
There are men in this world that want to be nurses and secretaries.
All of those choices deserve respect, as do those persons who choose traditional
values. The same goes for choices in relationships, be they any combination
of people from any background.
Respect
is something that can be lost. There is a point beyond which one
cannot respect another. Where that point lies depends on the situation
at hand. My personal boundary of respect for another concerns blatant
hypocrisy, denial thereof, and betrayal of trust. For others, the
criteria are otherwise. And while respect can be regained,
it is a very long and arduous process.
Chapter Two: Compassion
Be
kind. Everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle." (John Watson)
Compassion is one of those things that is essential for the further development
of the soul, and yet so few people seem to have enough of it. There
is no way for you to know what the person you see on the street is going
through. Perhaps their mother just died of heart disease. Perhaps
their significant other just left them for another. Perhaps they
are a victim of abuse. One cannot know these things upon sight, therefore
each person should be treated with a great deal of compassion and understanding
(even if you don't understand). Have mercy on each other. Each
life is too short to be cruel.
Chapter Three: Cheating
in Academic, Personal, and Social Respects
When one considers the word "cheating," many meanings
come to mind. Generally speaking, "cheating" can be taken to mean
the unfair gaining of advantage over another person; deception of oneself
of others; being unfaithful in a relationship; and breaking established
rules. The specific details of what constitutes cheating depends
highly on the individual. However, this being the Druidess' Ethical
Guidebook, these are the Druidess' standards for cheating:
Academic
Cheating
While many definitions of "cheating" in the academic realm depend upon
the institution and sometimes the individual teacher/professor, these are
some general guidelines:
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Testing. While
this may sound obvious to many, looking at another person's answers during
a test (outside of permission) is cheating. It is also cheating to
look in one's notes and/or textbook, unless the test is an open note/book
test. Whispering answers to each other during the test, unless it
is a collaborative test, is cheating. Using programs on your calculator,
or having the answers saved from another classmate is cheating. Being
told that there is a pop quiz, or what some of the test questions are,
is cheating. (In this case, both the giving and receiving parties
are guilty)
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Homework.
This area is a bit trickier. There are professors/teachers that insist
that all homework be done in solitude. However, working with
someone is generally not considered cheating. Doing the work for
someone, or having the work done for you, is cheating. (One noted
exception is having someone type a paper for you, presuming that you wrote
the draft that is being typed.) Additionally, having someone look
over completed work is not cheating. Discussion of completed work,
help with revisions, etc., are fine... so long as the work is done by those
who will receive credit for it.
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Library/Internet Resources. Plagiarism is beyond cheating ; it's illegal. Give credit where credit
is due. Sources should be cited for background information, quotes,
and direct ideas. Indirect ideas, those you formulated but are based
upon an outside source, needn't be cited explicitly, but credit should
be given in a bibliography. (If a "works cited" list is used, include
the work at the end, under a heading similar to "additional sources".)
That said, stand your ground. If you are accused of plagiarism and
have not done so, defend yourself.
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Group Work.
The idea behind group work is that each person contributes equally, and
to the best of their ability. All businesses are based upon this
concept... and, as in business, if one person falls short (whether deliberately
or not), someone else must pick up the slack, or there will be consequences (in an academic respect, this is generally seen as a lower grade).
However, deliberately allowing the workload to fall to others is cheating.
Some professors/teachers insist that a notice of each person's contributions
be attached to any group work. Not a bad idea.
Personal
Cheating
Social
Cheating
Other Chapters
are forthcoming.
They are as follows:
Chapter Four: Possession
and Ownership
Chapter Five: The Ten Commandments of Christianity
Chapter Six: Silence: When it's Good, and When it's Dangerous
Chapter Seven: Stereotypes and Judgments
Chapter Eight: Honor and Honesty
Chapter Nine: Loyalty and Trust
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