At the Center has rules. Don't be intimidated by them,
they're there for a reason and that reason is to ensure that
the group runs smoothly and that we get the most out of our online
support group experience.
If you're looking for something less
focused or less serious, Yahoo! Groups has many such groups to
offer in their Health & Wellness / Support Groups categories
of discussion lists.
Mutual respect is
expected at all times of all members.
This means no criticising, no name-calling, no flaming, harrassing,
or sneaky passive-aggressive attacks. You will be booted and
banned from the group if you act inappropriately. We don't all
have to agree with each other, but we do have to get
along.
Participation is mandatory. You will
be expected to post at least once a month, if only to say hello.
Lurking will not be tolerated and will result in your being banned
from the group. Life does happen, and we realise that there will
be times you can't post as often as you want, or when you need
some space from dealing with your abuse; excuses absences will
be allowed provided you let a moderator know that you will be
away/offline/quiet.
Trigger Warnings must
be used. This is simple. Either
you put the trigger warning in the subject heading or at the
very start of your post so that it is clear that the content
within might be upsetting to some readers. Simple, and it saves
a potentially upsetting incident.
Use quotes when you
reply! This one is simple too.
When you reply to a post, either quote the entire message in
your reply or at least include a line or two from the post so
we can all follow the thread, even if it's not directed at us.