Variety is the spice of life!

Dear Tommie ......an advice column by staff writer Veronica Garcia. Dear Tommie,      My love life stinks. I haven't had a true boyfriend in over 6 months, and I feel as though I'm becoming less attractive by the minute. All of my guy friends seem to believe this isn't true, but I think they are just saying that to make me feel better about myself. What should I do? Should I just give up and not care about guys, or should I let guys see that I can still look and feel good without needing their approval? Sincerly, Confused In The Head ________________________________________________________________- Dear Confused In The Head,      Believe it or not, I too have been in this predicament; although, mine was longer than 6 months. Some guys may not be looking to settle down with a girl at this age, or maybe you just haven't found one that is. Don't give up hope in finding one of the many true guys that will enter you life. Right now just think of this as a time to get to know the real you. Don't let yourself get controlled by what guys think of you. If all girls were to do that, guys would have the upper hand in any relationship. ____________________________________________________________________ 8 tips on how to capture a guy's attention: 1. Smile broadly. 2. Throw him darting glances. 3. Dance alone to music. 4. Look straight at him and flip your hair. 5. Look at him, look away, toss your head and then look back. 6. Lick you lips and parade close to him with exaggerated hip movements. 7. Look him straight in the eyes. Then drag your eyes away from him as         though they were stuck there. 8. Let your eyes slide down from his nose and his lips. Caress his lips with     your eyes  for a moment, and then slowly venture south to his neck. If you would like more information, feel free to go to the library and check out Away Laughing on a Fast Camel.

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