PAGAN PARENTING

Pagan parents have a unique task...that of teaching Pagan values to their children in a world hostile to alternative religions. No matter what tradition you practice the following ideas and values will be helpful.

Always approach the teaching of your children with a joyful spirit. Show your child the joy of honoring the Goddess and God, and following the ancient paths.

Knowledge is power. If your children are properly prepared, they will be able to answer questions about their beliefs, and defend themselves in an educated manner against those hostile to their beliefs.

Your own actions and deeds speak loudest of all. If you want them to learn your chosen path, teach them about it with actions, not just words.

Let your children see your enthusiasm for the old ways, and they will develop it too. Take them on Nature walks, and other places where they can learn to understand the Goddess and her creations.

Listen to your children, and they will learn to listen to others. Their thoughts will give you insight into how they see the world.

Teach your children the old ways by doing Pagan projects and crafts with them. Projects such as recycling shows them that doing what they can to help  the Earth is essential.

Teach them to recognize the power inherent in all things. Introduce them to personal power and divine power. Carefully instruct them in the use of power and the responsibility that goes with it.

Teach your children the deities of your tradition. Explain who they are and what function they have in your life and your rituals. Instruct them in simple chants they can use on their own.

Celebrate your traditions holidays with rituals and decorations. Sabbats and Esbats both show children what it means to be Pagan. Allow them to participate as much as possible.

Your children will have many questions along the way. Always answer them truthfully and to the best of your ability. Never discourage questions from children.

This page is dedicated to my GrandSun, Brendan...The light of my life. I love you my little Bug-a-Boo!!!! What a gift you are to all...May you always be as happy as you make everyone around you.

Be open and honest and allow children to pick their own paths. Expose them to many beliefs and let them make their own choices. Above all, teach them to believe in themselves.