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Your Life Symbol Cards
For birth date: June 20, 1981
Happy Birthday! Welcome to your free tarot reading of your bout the insight that these cards can provide for your life...
Your Personality Motivator Card Like your Astrological Sign, you have a Tarot Trump (Major Arcana) card that is assigned to you for life according to your birth date. This life card describes who you are to the outside world, your tendencies, personality type, potential, challenges, motivations, expectations, or how others may see you. We refer to it as your Personality Motivator Card (PMC). |
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Lovers |
(Upright) You are a true and faithful friend, and have the capacity to love unconditionally. You may be one of the lucky ones who are fortunate to find their true soul mate provided you don't give into temptation for instant gratification or settle for less than what you deserve. You are a person of great compassion, and may put the needs or happiness of someone you care for ahead of your own. A desire for long term connection, love, and fulfillment enables you to recognize or cultivate your hearts desire, while appreciating consequence, the art of compromise, and the importance of trust when making decisions. (Reversed) You may feel hurt, abused, used, or let down by love, and this could affect your judgment, identity, sexuality, commitment, or self-esteem. Stubborn pride or control issues could keep you from being able to seek support, compromise, or come to an understanding, for you may be embarrassed or blinded by a desire to win. Lust, insecurity, or indifference could cause you to be indiscriminant in choosing your companions, and a misguided belief that you can change someone into your soul mate may only show a glaring disparity between what you think you desire, what you deserve, and how you may be settling. Something is missing, or you aren't learning from past mistakes, and until you are true and faithful to yourself, no one else can be. |
Your Annual Development Card Your growth and development cards for the current year and your lifetime describe some of the positive and negative influences, possibilities, issues, or even people with whom you may come in contact, or that could have an effect on you throughout the course of each year. We call these your Annual Development Cards (ADCs). |
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(Upright) This year could show you to be mysterious, sensitive, introspective, and creative, with a tremendous capacity to understand or reflect the motives and dual nature of others. You could prove good at keeping secrets, and prefer to leave something to the imagination, rather than putting all your cards on the table at once, but this may be the result of being unsure of your own agenda or identity. You may have mood swings, and go through surreal phases or cycles, causing others to see you as inconsistent, romantic, gossiping, or irrational, but this year, work on developing trust in your unconscious and learn to accept that the only constant thing about you is change. (Reversed) You could prove to be lousy at keeping secrets this year, or have issues with women, sexuality, or esteem, but others may see you as solid, dependable, or rational. You might try to avoid extremes or put on a sunny face by day, but the nights brings wild passion, sleeplessness, depression, loneliness, fear, or irrational thoughts about your identity. You may go through phases during the year where your judgment is clouded by delusion, desire, lust, or attraction, and you may feel neurotic or out of control. You might take pride in your ability to uncover hidden motives, spoil surprises, or reveal tricks or rumor, but this may be an attempt to distract from your own reflection or lack of imagination. This year could see light at the end of the tunnel once you finally get good look in the mirror and take steps to manage these mental or emotional obstacles. Sign up for an Unlimited Tarot subscription and gain insight with your Annual Development Cards for the next 5 years! |
Your Life Lesson Card Your Life Lesson Card (LLC) suggests possible opportunities, obstacles, challenges or influences that may repeat themselves or develop into patterns over the course of your lifetime. The lessons are often presented in phases or cycles at various levels of experience, and depending upon your faith, they can sometimes represent a purpose for this incarnation. View this card in relation to your PMC and ADCs in order to gain insight on how to best integrate these lessons into your life for maximum personal growth, happiness, or achievement. |
Birth Date and
Time..... June 20
Sun Sign....................
Gemini
Solar Return calculated for 2008
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Personal Profile Reading
You have a sensible and realistic outlook on life and your
two feet are always planted firmly on the ground (though you may,
on occasion, have your head in the clouds). Others often see you
as a rock of strength, solid, reliable, dependable, and constant.
You are, in fact, amazingly consistent for you possess great
powers of endurance and do not like to make changes or
adjustments in your regular routine. You do things deliberately
and methodically and do not easily accommodate the unexpected.
Though you have a gentle, even soft, appearance, you are
enormously strong-willed and stubborn. You go at your own pace
and refuse to be rushed or pushed into anything before you feel
sure about it. You can be coaxed and persuaded by charm, beauty,
love, or affection - but never forced. You won't fight either,
but simply stubbornly resist any attempt to coerce you to do
something you do not want to do.
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You are, in many ways, an eternal child. Your mind is bright,
alert, curious, flexible, playful, and always eager for new
experiences - and your attention span is often quite brief. You
grasp ideas quickly and once your initial curiosity has been
satisfied, you want to go on to something else. You crave
frequent change, variety, meeting new situations and people.
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Visualize the symbolic 9, a circle that captures the power of the heavens, directing and extending this power to the earth. Your strength lies in your ability to see life from various perspectives. Your perceptiveness can help you make a real difference in your corner of the world.
You can enhance the positive aspects of your birthright by harnessing your ability to inspire people to greatness. Be aware of your negative side: your tendency to perfectionism - this quality will push away all those who cannot live up to your idealism.
Careers that you will excel in allow you to use your compassion and vision. Consider opportunities in: social causes, nonprofit organizations, motivational speaking, teaching.
To find your destiny, you must discover joy and spontaneity in life; doing so will release your ability to rekindle the lighter part of the human spirit and inspire "senseless acts of kindness" in other individuals.
You will be drawn to situations that allow you to express yourself. In time, you will find that your openly optimistic ways are contagious and that you have the ability to move people. When those around you have lost their zest for life, you remind them about faith, love and the simple things worth appreciating.
You have the potential for great romance, love and money - you just have to learn how to express your joy!
Your talent is your perception, which makes you a great listener. You can utilize it to develop deep and interesting relationships.
Consider honing your intuition; it will serve you well. Your talent indicates that you will do better in partnerships than working on your own. You are also more comfortable in a supportive role than in a leading one.
Hint: Combine your heightened awareness with your birthright's ideal career and your intuition will make you an invaluable asset to any team.
Your inner person is a true bohemian. You long for freedom and constant stimulation. You have a distinct approach to life and need to be an original, a trendsetter. You have a great imagination, and you're progressive and innovative.
You live life to the fullest and love being in love, but you don't do well in committed relationships. A successful romance for you can happen with a partner who doesn't make you feel tied down. You'll push away anyone who doesn't give you space.
How to be true to yourself: Claim your gypsy soul. Live an interesting and fulfilling journey and remind others to do the same.
At first you appear standoffish or hard to approach. But once people get past their initial impression, they realize that you're likable when you let your guard down. You exude confidence in social settings if you are primped and well dressed. To compensate for your reserved personality, add a bit of flash to your wardrobe. Incorporate a few items that are out of your fashion comfort zone - you'll come across as more accessible.
Your number 2 life lesson reveals that you may be missing tact. Perhaps you are not fully aware of other people's needs. You must learn how to work as a team player, both personally and professionally. It's important for you to be considerate of others while you're fulfilling your desires. Overcoming this Achilles' heel will help you enjoy better interpersonal relationships.
In your case, this life lesson number also shows up in another area of your chart. This means this life lesson may not be overly harsh and you will be better able to handle it.
Your number 4 life lesson reveals that you may be lacking organizational skills. You must learn to pay more attention to the more minute points. Dot your i's and cross your t's. Detailed work may feel mundane, but concentrated effort will help you achieve your goals. Overcoming this Achilles' heel will increase your productivity and, as a result, your fulfillment.
Your number 9 life lesson reveals that you may be self-absorbed or too narrow-minded. You must learn to broaden your perspective and consider how others feel. You can expand your point of view by widening your social circle, traveling and taking classes or pursuing higher education. Overcoming this Achilles' heel will expand your compassion, increase your tolerance and make others want to be around you more.
In your case, this life lesson number also shows up in another area of your chart. This means this life lesson may not be overly harsh and you will be better able to handle it.
Your tendency is to be a drama queen. You are acutely aware of social needs and causes and feel the emotional impact of the injustices you see in the world. Your challenge will be to stop taking all of the world's problems on your shoulders. Time, maturity and getting some perspective will help you find balance in when to be outraged and when to stay silent
In your case, this life lesson number also shows up in another area of your chart. This means this life lesson may not be overly harsh and you will be better able to handle it.
Because your main challenge is the number 3, you will struggle to overcome your self-doubt. Your inner voice may be strongly self-critical; it blocks you from expressing yourself and your creativity. This challenge, felt to an extreme, will stop you from bringing pleasure to others through your artistic genius.
You can get beyond this obstacle by developing your talent through dance, music, art or acting. Experimenting with various forms of art will allow you to overcome that tendency to judge yourself too harshly.
Because your first challenge is the number 4, you will find it tough to work effectively. You may be either a workaholic or extremely lazy; either way, you possess a lack of perspective about the tasks in front of you. This challenge, felt to an extreme, will make you ineffective in your job or with responsibilities at hand.
You can conquer this issue by establishing a reasonable schedule. You will be most productive by operating at a steady pace and taking pride in your work -including even the smallest of accomplishments.
Because your second challenge is the number 1, you will struggle to learn how to stand up for yourself. As a child you were likely dominated and restricted from expressing your needs. The result is that you suppress your own wants in order to please others. This challenge, felt to an extreme, may paralyze you from being aware that your desires are valid and deserve to be met.
You can conquer this challenge through action: Stand up for yourself. You already know your own mind; now you just need to give yourself permission to speak it.
Because your third challenge is the number 5, you could experience either of two extremes: You live like a gypsy without any roots, or you are so terrified of change that you are completely immobile. You have trouble finding a medium between getting stuck and going completely wild: As a result, you are in danger of succumbing to some form of overindulgence, with food, sex, alcohol, drugs or another vice.
You can conquer this issue by developing greater coping skills. Being more selective will also be beneficial. It will help you choose better among the many opportunities presented to you, minimizing your stress and its consequences.
Maya * Aztec Astrology Report
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DAY-SIGN: 2-Reed
(Maya: 2-Ben)
YEAR: North-9 (Tikal System)
13-DAY PERIOD: 1-Grass
(Maya: 1-Eb)
NIGHT LORD: 4
VENUS PHASE: Evening Star
The ancient Maya and Aztec astrologers studied the mysterious influence of the rhythms of the sky on earthly life. Everyone knows the Sun rises and sets every day -- this is the basic rhythm of life around which we set our clocks and calendars. What the ancient astrologers discovered was that other time cycles existed that were multiples of this basic day cycle. This fact was discovered about 100 years ago in Europe and these cycles (there are many of them) are now called biorhythms.
Here are your strongest and most obvious personality traits. The delineation below describes who you are and how you appear to others, at least on the surface. In Aztec astrology this part of is your horoscope is your Tonalli, or Day-Sign, the form bestowed upon you by the Sun.
Each of us reacts to the world around us in different ways. Our reactions are mostly unconscious; they represent what our deeper self needs. Our reactions both attract and repel us from things, people, and situations. What we like, what we like to do, and who we really are is shown by the 13-day week called the Trecena that we were born under. Each of these periods begins with the number 1 and the name of the day-sign that starts it. A number is attached to your position within the 13-day period that may be an important number for you.
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This number is the result of a formula based
on how many questions you answered correctly on Tickle's Emotional IQ test. But
your Emotional IQ score is much more than just a number: it's an indicator of
success.
Research has shown that people with high emotional intelligence scores ¡ª not
necessarily those with the highest IQ scores ¡ª tend to be the most valued and
productive employees and have the longest and happiest romantic relationships.
So, where are you most emotionally smart? Your test results show that
your strongest suit is empathy ¡ª your ability to see things from someone
else's point of view.
Hot or Not? (for girls)
Your confidence level is medium
As a result, you probably see yourself
as a great, focused, or energized person at least half of the time.
However on other days, stress and self-doubt might leave you feeling a
bit low. So while you're generally a warm person who thinks highly of
yourself and others, your behavior may change for the worse when you're
having "one of those days." Luckily, people like you tend to bounce back
pretty easily.
Your intelligence seems to be the trait that you most value in yourself
of the five main traits that affect confidence. You also seem to
appreciate this characteristic in others.
You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties. You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.
Your views on education
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:
You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.
How do you view success:
You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of:
You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.
Who is your true self:
You like privacy very much because you enjoy spending time with your own thoughts. You like to disappear when you cannot find solutions to your own problems, but you would feel better if you learned to share your thoughts with a person you trust. You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.
You desire a love that will last forever. You are quite serious about finding this type of love, and that's why you think carefully about the men that you meet before deciding whether you could really love them. You don't just develop a crush on someone overnight: you look at a person's personality and other aspects of their life before deciding to form an attachment. If a guy doesn't meet your expectations, you would rather be alone. Your love has to be perfect. Be careful though, you could be missing out on some worthy relationships because your standards are so high.
You love freedom and want to follow your heart's desires. You might not be at your best when dealing with other people. Once you are given the opportunity to work your chosen way, your gift will shine. A tip for you is not to concentrate too much on your own work, but widen your focus and consider the opinions of other people.
You are always cheerful and charming. You never get too serious with people when they're around, but when you are alone, you think carefully about what they have said. That's because you don't want anyone to see you being too somber. Your personality means you have a lot of friends and you are often the center of attention. Many people who fall into this category become artists and movie stars, perhaps fame could be yours in the future as well.
How you control your husband, who will lead the family and who will be led?
You will never expect to control your boyfriend or husband. Your boyfriend and you will take turns to make decision and the decision is often acceptable to both of you. Whatever you want to let him know, you can just tell him straightforwardly. This is a good relationship, a pretty modern one.
He is wild and adventurous. His path is often against the world. He does what he wants when he feels like. His type of girl is quite like him, independent and wise. If you love freedom and willing to risk, go for this guy.
You recover quickly from disappointment. But when you feel that things are going wrong, you will react immediately.
Here is the analysis:
You are quite pessimistic and wavering. People can simply find out what's on your mind from your facial expression or speech.
You are too careful to reveal yourself to others. No one can tell what is under your smiling face.
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analysis.. kabalarians
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sex. Niwae, this corrected one sound slightly beta HAha.. nah, still sound
like a mercenary creep.. oh well.. .@o@.
The name of XXX has given you a strong desire for a high standard of
living. From a very early age, your ambitions have been directed toward
the accumulation of material wealth. However, you have a generous
side to your nature as well, and like to share what you have with others.
You have an empathy for the problems of others, particularly on
social or economic issues, and you would gain satisfaction doing work of
a humanitarian nature. You have a clever mind and must have an
interest outside the home to be happy. Because of your interest in
business and the affairs of the world, you find it easy to converse with all
types of people. (HUh???)
There is a tendency for you to possess and control those closest to you,
and, as a result, you would suffer with shattered ideals and losses
in the affections.
(...)Your
feelings are very strong and you have difficulty in controlling your temper.
You must fight to overcome an inclination to indulge in the pleasures
of life.
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You appreciate good food and may even be considered a connoisseur of fine
foods. (@o@)This
name creates a weakness in the female organs of the body. You could also
suffer with nervous disorders or goitre.
as if an answer to my question, juz did this
[my name]
from the Ancient Egyptian root meaning "Tainter of Air"
Characteristics: [my name] drives over old ladies at intersections.
Personality: [my name] can't seem to stop pissing people off.
Natural: [my name] collects body-parts.
Emotional: [my name] is prone to obsession.
Character: [my name] has a nasty temper.
Physical: [my name] is uglier than a two-peckered billy-goat.
Mental: [my name] talks to the walls.
Motivation: [my name] is in everything for the money.
So in short, i'm a boring, naggy old-lady alike loony
He's the typical guy that you normally would
see in today's society, nothing too spectacular. In fact, you really have to
concentrate in picking him out among the crowd. He's also easy going, has a
sophisticated taste. He isn't boring or anything like that. Just that he would
tend to be a little humble, has his own independent views, but keeps it to
himself. If the situation requires, he can step forward and really make an
impression on others.
The woman of his dream must not be the helpless lady type or too conservative,
but must be a fighter with high perseverance. Women who are the fragile type
or too ladylike are definitely not to his taste. She must be committed to
overcome any obstacle in building up a family with him. Those from a rich
family is definitely out. He prefers women whose fortune are self-made. This
type of guy isn't selfish at all, but a real social contributor one can say.
Don't worry, his requirements aren't really that high, you may pass the test
you know.
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CJ Cold\\
otherwise known
as the Crappy Job COld. Those who face high psychological demands at wk and
were delegated jobs not originally in their folder since other colleagues
were laid off will also fear of being laid off n suffer from stress--> fall
ill more easily
test
my results: mental age 27yrs old, naivety 64%, maturity 50%, aging 30% so
guess i'm still IMMATURE!!
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You're male, but people often
mistake you for the other option. You're unfeasibly thin and pretty and
always have perfect hair, often surrounded by sparkles/sakura/roses. You
almost certainly have a tragic backstory which involves one or more of your
parents, and are liable to have a Tragic Destiny (TM). You were almost
certainly invented by a female mangaka, are worshipped by a female audience,
and your life is characterised by periods of extreme pain and angst. Sucks
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You're the smirk,a frown-smile hybrid that's a
little bit cocky and usually associated with
evil or arrogant,but attractive people. You
probably just don't give a damn,but it's
everyone else's fault if you don't because
you're too awesome to have any real faults.
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Your
feeling is nothing...
You obviously do not feel or sense. It's like you're not even human sometimes.
Some people may see you as calm, but you have no emotion. You don't smile, but
you don't frown. You don't laugh and you don't cry. Your feeling is nothing, and
you don't seem to care or give any thought whatsoever into anything, which may
lead other people into thinking you're boring. Trying to deal with things in a
calmly manner and not get over-emotional is one thing but showing no emotion at
all is something else. You don't care what anyone thinks, ever, which would be a
good thing if you cared about others a little or even yourself.
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What kind of angel are you?
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You are a normal angel. You're a guardian angel or just died child or teenager and you're on earth because you're loved one's here..
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young adult -
512 other people got this result!
This quiz has been taken 12855 times.
4% of people had this result.
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Your Japanese name should be
'Amaya'
which means "night rain".
You're a dark person, a bit of a loner, and probably even
depressed. You feel better at night than at day. Rain makes you
think of yourself, how it seems you're falling over and over
again...
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Which Japanese name fits you best? [females, 9 results + absolutely stunning ANIME pictures!]
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You are sad because of your grief
Why are you sad? [amazing pictures] For darker people
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(picture is nice, not true but i'll
leave it here niwae)
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Life is good and bad. You know it can never be perfect and that it never have been, and you're fine with that. You still feel it's important to live life since it can end any day and not sulk because of some little failure in life. You are often a happy person, still you don't laugh all the time. You have a somewhat calm
aura and most people feel comfortable around you.
How do you see life?
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"Close your eyes and let your memories embrace you"
In your past, (whether it be as a child, a certain relationship with someone or just a specific time period) you found happiness. Now, however, you have lost it, and wish desperately to go back and relive it all. Because you focus too much on what has already happened, you have a problem with the future and don't really wish to go there. You have mourned this loss for quite some time now, and are too used to it to
let the familiarity go. This situation is making you frustrated, because you can't do anything about it, but you remain unwilling to release your memories.
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Your element is Ice. This element may seem a little odd, but this is a side-effect from when the element of Water gets too hurt. Once you were a content soul, and happy with life. But then something happened. Not necessarily on one day, it probably happened gradually over time. You lost your will to care and became even more reserved from the world. People had hurt you in ways you do not want to remember and now you isolate yourself from them. You have turned into an outsider and probably dress more in black than you used to. Your depression is eating you up and tearing you apart and the worst part is that no one is willing to help, or so it seems. In school you are often by yourself or one single friend and you rarely seem to be truly happy anymore. Your sad, distant eyes and constant frown seems glued to your face and you need a saviour
from this world. You may turn to music for understanding and sing/scream
along in the lyrics to get rid of some pain. You are not very open about
your problems to your family/friends, and wish that they would just notice
it and make it go away.
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Your element is Water. You have a calm aura around you and are in tune with the world around. You observe it but rarely interfere. Because of your shy and timid nature you will not have so many friends in your life. But then again, large crowds aren't your thing anyway. You are comfortable on your own and are reserved to others who you don't know or know very little of. You know everyone out there does not want to be your friend, and knowing that is good. However, people who don't know you that well thinks that you are cold and distant since you don't want to talk to them. Although you mean no harm, you can't always be perfectly understood in the world. No one can. Life in general are you quite serene with even if there are some things you don't like. Your love-life is not so full of boys/girls, but if you flirted more with the ones you were interested in I'm sure something would happen. The hobbies you choose are calmer ones, you are no party person that likes to drink and make-out with three or more guys/girls in one night. Reading a book or swimming is more your thing. Rate and message!
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Your word is:
Brooding. You are a true thinker and often try to figure out the meaning of life, why we are all here etc. You may not be so social, and often think twice before acting but those thoughts you have in your mind never stop flowing in. Sometimes you can be so concentrated you forget about other things that you have to do. Don't change, this world needs deep people.
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Explanation: Your power is that you can look into the future and see what is coming. How far and long you can look is all depending on your skill level. This can, as all powers, be used in both evil and good. Even if it may seem like a boring ability it is a huge responsibility for the carrier, because they are constantly tempted with doing the wrongs deeds (e.g. cheat on a test). It takes high morals to not be brought down with it. Therefore you fit with this power quite well. You take responsibility and do what is the right thing to do. This does not make you a saint, since you're only human after all. But it makes a trustworthy person and you are loyal to comrades and/or team mates. In school you were probably a good student. If you were social varies from person to person, but most clairvoyant people tend to prefer their own
What Power is Compatible With You? [beautiful anime pictures + 12 detailed results]
Your power is: Clairvoyance
company or that of close friends and family. That is because you are wise and knows how to treasure the reliable in your life, since you know popularity can be a false element. You are also not that big on taking risks and prefer what is already explored. That is because you don't like surprises, they can turn out bad and then you won't be in control.
Negative aspects: Since you're always doing the right thing and being trustworthy all the time you can become frustrated. Also, all that you carry on your shoulders may stress you out. You need to relax to be in good mental shape.
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ISFJ (Introverted Sensing Feeling Judging) (Introverted Sensing with Extraverted Feeling)
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ISFJs are characterized above all by their desire to serve others, their "need to be needed." In extreme cases, this need is so strong that standard give-and-take relationships are deeply unsatisfying to them; however, most ISFJs find more than enough with which to occupy themselves within the framework of a normal life. (Since ISFJs, like all SJs, are very much bound by the prevailing social conventions, their form of "service" is likely to exclude any elements of moral or political controversy; they specialize in the local, the personal, and the practical.)
ISFJs are often unappreciated, at work, home, and play. Ironically, because they prove over and over that they can be relied on for their loyalty and unstinting, high-quality work, those around them often take them for granted--even take advantage of them. Admittedly, the problem is sometimes aggravated by the ISFJs themselves; for instance, they are notoriously bad at delegating ("If you want it done right, do it yourself"). (this is oh-so-true) And although they're hurt by being treated like doormats, they are often unwilling to toot their own horns about their accomplishments because they feel that although they deserve more credit than they're getting, it's somehow wrong to want any sort of reward for doing work (which is supposed to be a virtue in itself). (And as low-profile Is, their actions don't call attention to themselves as with charismatic Es.) Because of all of this, ISFJs are often overworked, (this is oh-so-true) and as a result may suffer from psychosomatic illnesses (perhaps in the near future HAHHAHAH) .
In the workplace, ISFJs are methodical and accurate workers, often with very good memories and unexpected analytic abilities; they are also good with people in small-group or one-on-one situations because of their patient and genuinely sympathetic approach to dealing with others. ISFJs make pleasant and reliable co-workers and exemplary employees, but tend to be harried and uncomfortable in supervisory roles (this is oh-so-true) . They are capable of forming strong loyalties, but these are personal rather than institutional loyalties (true) ; if someone they've bonded with in this way leaves the company, the ISFJ will leave with them, if given the option. Traditional careers for an ISFJ include: teaching, social work, most religious work, nursing, medicine (general practice only), clerical and and secretarial work of any kind, and some kinds of administrative careers (ops.. am I in the wrong line??).
While their work ethic is high on the ISFJ priority list, their families are the centers of their lives. ISFJs are extremely warm and demonstrative within the family circle--and often possessive of their loved ones, as well. When these include Es who want to socialize with the rest of the world, or self-contained ITs, the ISFJ must learn to adjust to these behaviors and not interpret them as rejection. Being SJs, they place a strong emphasis on conventional behavior (although, unlike STJs, they are usually as concerned with being "nice" as with strict propriety); if any of their nearest and dearest depart from the straight-and-narrow, it causes the ISFJ major embarrassment: the closer the relationship and the more public the act, the more intense the embarrassment (a fact which many of their teenage children take gleeful advantage of). Over time, however, ISFJs usually mellow, and learn to regard the culprits as harmless eccentrics :-). Needless to say, ISFJs take infinite trouble over meals, gifts, celebrations, etc., for their loved ones--although strong Js may tend to focus more on what the recipient should want rather than what they do want.
Like most Is, ISFJs have a few, close friends. They are extremely loyal to these, and are ready to provide emotional and practical support at a moment's notice. (However, like most Fs they hate confrontation; if you get into a fight, don't expect them to jump in after you. You can count on them, however, run and get the nearest authority figure.) Unlike with EPs, the older the friendship is, the more an ISFJ will value it. One ISFJ trait that is easily misunderstood by those who haven't known them long is that they are often unable to either hide or articulate any distress they may be feeling. For instance, an ISFJ child may be reproved for "sulking," the actual cause of which is a combination of physical illness plus misguided "good manners." An adult ISFJ may drive a (later ashamed) friend or SO into a fit of temper over the ISFJ's unexplained moodiness, only afterwards to explain about a death in the family they "didn't want to burden anyone with." Those close to ISFJs should learn to watch for the warning signs in these situations and take the initiative themselves to uncover the problem.
Results in Mar 03
Ok. You are sympathetic, loyal, considerate, and conscientious. You will go to any amount of trouble, when it makes sense to you, to help those in need. You are responsible and enjoy being needed. You are down-to-earth and realistic and like others who are quiet and unassuming. You absorb and enjoy using a large number of facts.
You like situations where the rules are well defined and where traditions are to be upheld. You focus on providing practical help and services for others and for the organizations you serve. You have a strong work ethic.
You can be painstakingly accurate and systematic in handling tasks...you're conservative with traditional values...quiet and modest...tactful and supportive of friends and family...
You are often self-effacing in getting the job done, and are willing to make necessary sacrifices, especially for your family. You are at your best quietly providing assistance and making sure things are in order.
You have a few close friends, don't like disharmony, and try to keep cooperation at all costs...you'll stay close friends with that tight circle for a LONG time...worry a lot...
You need to have things organized in a way you think works.. you cannot work when things are out of order...when things are in disarray, you have to reorganize 'em immediately....you get involved with leisure ONLY after all the work is done...
You have a tendency to put off relaxing because there's too much work to be done...you enjoy time with your family...you fall in love hard when you fall. You place a high value on marriage and family...you seek out a partner and feel unfulfilled without one. you most likely are a good student because you diligently follow through in your work to please your teachers.....you learn best by DOING...
You tend not to be the center of attention...often appear serious...others like trying to get a laugh or a smile out of you...you get angry or bitter when scorned...but you keep it inside...
Possible blindspots: because you are SOOOO in the present, you have a hard time seeing possibilities or consequences of your actions...can become mired in the daily grind...don't forget to express your bottled-up feelings...you can be taken advantage of....could be pessimistic about the future because it's unknown and you rely on past experiences.....you want to plan too much.
ISFJ: "I Serve Family Joyfully"
Results in May 07
That means that based on the standard
measure of personality traits, you are well-balanced and place equal importance
on work as on your personal life. You are dedicated to maintaining a level of
culture in your life and therefore won't sacrifice interesting work for high
pay.
With your high energy and chameleon-like adaptabilities, you seek work that is
fast-paced and ever-changing. Working directly with people, especially in a
capacity that benefits them, provides you with that outlet.
You prefer to live in the moment and appreciate what life and work offer now.
The future is unknowable and does not draw you in like the present. Part of your
easy-going outlook towards the future has to do with knowing that you can adapt
to whatever comes your way.
The reason employers and recruiters might be on the lookout for you is that only
about 5% of the U.S. population shares the unique characteristics of your
personality type. Research shows that businesses succeed when employers create a
good balance of personality types in the office. And since only 5% of the U.S.
population shares your type, that means employers are looking for you
Aura ¨C Blue
Blues are the most caring, nurturing and protective personalities in the color-spectrum. They live out of their hearts and their emotions. Their life purpose is to serve, help and love others. Blues have an inner knowledge and wisdom and they feel and know what is right without needing facts or data for substantiation. The moment they become quiet inside, they will recognize or hear an inner voice or guidance, which will tell them what to do. They can easily tune into other people and feel precisely what is going on. Blues are the most emotional of all the color personalities. They often feel lost if they don't have the opportunity to clear their way through their intense jungle of deep feelings. Helpful activities for Blues would include talking with friends about their inner life, writing a journal or just being quiet so their intense emotions can calm down.
Blues are more concerned about others then they are about themselves They are born caretakers and mothers. They remember other people's birthdays, are concerned about the sick and have always a shoulder for others to cry on. They are born advisers, counselors, caretakers and nurses. Many people enjoy being with Blues because they transmit love, acceptance and forgiveness. Blues cry easily and primarily release their emotions, joy, sorrow, sadness and happiness, through tears. The other color personalities often have problems understanding the Blues intense emotionality. However, this emotional depth gives them the ability to be warm, sympathetic and protective.
The biggest challenge for any Blue person is to just say, "NO!" They have a basic fear that others might push them back, reject them or no longer love them. The fear of hurting other people's feelings reflects and mirrors their own fears of being hurt. They need to recognize the enormous benefits of Self-Love and also to understand that "no" does not mean the same as, " I don't love you." They need to find their boundaries and borders with other people because they have a tendency of allowing friends and even strangers to come into their energy field without having adequate protection. Sometimes Blues even take on other people's energies and qualities. This can especially happen while they are helping or nurturing others in the capacity of nurses or caretakers. This can occur to the point where they actually take on other people's sicknesses or problems. Blues are precise and clear in their thinking. From a mental standpoint they are usually in a peaceful and calm state of mind. They focus more on their feelings and emotions than on their thoughts. Blues do not like physical activity or work. For theses sensitive beings the physical world often seems loud, brutal and harsh. They prefer to reside in their own emotional world. They enjoy sports they can practice with friends and family. These would include such activities as walking, swimming and simple ball games. Because they are not very physically active, and because Blue is the color of expansion and wideness, they can easily gain weight.
SOCIAL LIFE
Blues enjoy being around people all the time. They are very social, the perfect caretakers and helpers, always interested in and concerned about other people's needs. These traits allow them to be loving and in service to their family or friends. Blues are found in all areas of society, wherever service and support is needed. The biggest gift for these loving personalities is to help and support their family and friends. They are family oriented people who love being with their partners, children or friends. Planing picnics, creating nice meals, nothing seems too much if it is enjoyed and appreciated. Blues have friends for life.
RELATIONSHIPS AND INTIMACY
The most important aspect of a Blues life is living in healthy, harmonious relationships. Blues want to be loved and appreciated. They make wonderful mates because they love to take care of and support their loved ones. They will do anything to create a happy and harmonious family life. They often expect their partner to return their love or be as much supportive and caring. They need to understand that other color personality characters might not understand the strong emotional depth they possess and also have different emotional and mental behaviors.
Blues want to be married and live in affectionate, solid family units. Love and affection is more important to them than sex and passion. Kissing, cuddling and feeling their partner's affection and emotional love are more important than sexual excitement and stimulation. Sexuality is a deep, emotional and spiritual experience and creates a strong bond between the lovers. Blues are loyal and monogamous. They need to be aware that if they are too emotionally demanding with their partner, they might push them away. In disharmonious relationships they have problems with letting go. The very words, "let go," are key words for all Blues.
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Blue personalities are not very interested in money. Emotional and spiritual values are far more important and play a much larger role in their life. They are careful with money and have a rather conservative approach to it. They need to make sure to cover all their expenses and needs and normally do not take any financial risks. Blues are born nurses, caretakers, counselors and therapists. They are also born listeners and easily tune into other people's feelings and thoughts. If Blues choose an occupation, which does not offer these opportunities, they are still usually known as the "nice, good person around the corner." They would be the people you go to if you have any problems or want to unload any emotional disturbances.
Blues solve their problems by being peaceful, looking inside themselves, and asking the right questions. They must learn to listen and trust their intuition, their inner voice, and then deal with the situation. Because of their strong intuition and their inner knowledge, Blues usually know what they should do. Their main problem is taking action and making changes. The biggest challenge for Blues is letting go of old habits and patterns and openly embracing new situations. Blues are good listeners and have the ability to tune into other people's inner world. They have a strong intuition and healing power. This is why they are often found in professions in which they can be helpful, nurturing or supportive. Typical "Blue" occupations are: Nurse, caretaker, priest, nun, housewife, mother, child care worker, service personal, social-worker, counselor, teacher, therapist, consultant, healer, secretary, accountant, personal manager and volunteer.
HEALTH, WELL-BEING AND GROWTH
To become centered, Blues must learn the difficult lesson of loving themselves. If they can overcome their biggest fear, which is to not be loved and to be alone, they can express their deep feelings freely and then live a compassionate, happy and fulfilling life. It is important for Blues to set their own boundaries and make clear decisions. They must learn to say, "No," if it feels like "no." Connecting with their personal power and then using it allows them to achieve their goals and give out even more love.
Blues need a lot of time for themselves. They like being in a quiet atmosphere, listening to harmonious music or just sitting in a peaceful room. Being alone is relaxing and allows them to go within. Allowing peace and silence to occur are important activities for Blues to find their purpose in life. Meditation and prayer are the most important and powerful tools they can use to achieve inner peace and happiness and to recharge their own life energy batteries. Going to church or a meditation class is an excellent way of meeting like-minded people and getting involved into a spiritual way of life.
Blues need to constantly be aware of their sensitive and powerful emotional system. Understanding their Mind/Body relationship will help them to stay healthy and strong. If Blues have a question or want to solve a problem, they need to be quiet, stay centered and go inward. If they ask a question in this peaceful state of mind they will hear and immediately sense the answer inside. The challenge for Blues is not only to hear and trust their inner voice, but also to act on it and live their inner knowledge in the real world.