Greetings!
Today, Sunday,
May 12, is Mother's Day.
Although we have no
biological human kids, along with the 74 million mothers in our country
and their families, our little family celebrates this day. Upon
awakening this morning, I was treated to our dogkids', O's and
Freddy B's, enthusiastic wake-up slurps, nuzzling, and waggly
tails.
A hearty breakfast
lovingly prepared by DH, who was escorted up the stairs by our
"kids," was much enjoyed by "Mom" (that would be
me). Then, DH drew me a bath.
A BATH!
That's my ultimate
Mother's Day gift: a
luxurious bath, complete with bubbles and a bath balm of
oatmeal, bath salts, chamomile, hibiscus, saffron, cloves, cinnamon
and orange oil -- melted
in the water, leaving it silky smooth and fragrant.
For the next half
hour, I luxuriated, relaxing in a fragrant, emollient haze and enjoying the deep silence
and the company
of our dogkids at the tub's edge, lapping up splashed drops of
water.
I love
baths!
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In contrast, the next
half-hour was frenzied with rushing
about, housecleaning, and packing up the car. As we drove down the
hill, the mountain skies were blue, breathtakingly blue, and
cloudless, and the late spring air temperatures were perfect.
Leaving the mountains is never easy, but especially so, early in the
day.
But we had a lot to go
back down the hill to...
~~~
Our godchildren, Samara,
Jonathan (Samara's husband) and Alana, invited us to celebrate Mother's Day
with them over at
their mother's, Sue's, home.
We are so glad (and
grateful) that
Sue's home is now just a quick freeway's drive away from us, and not
hundreds of miles away as it was almost three years ago, when they
lived in Danville. Jonathan and
Samara now live only one city away from Sue, and Alana lives less
than two hours away,
in San Diego.
The proximity has been
ideal, and the `ohana (family) coming together is so much easier.
Upon arrival, we were
immediately deluged with gifts. First, a huge bouquet of flowers, a
beautiful card and a gorgeous orchid lei for me, and a ti lei for DH, too.
Samara and Jonathan had just returned from their weeklong Florida
vacation to Disney World. We are a family of Disneyphiles and
they delighted us with great-looking pens that commemorate 100 years
of Disney Magic.
It was a warm summer's
day at Sue's, just the way Sue likes it, and we had a culinary
surprise of a dinner in her backyard under a large
umbrella.
Click on the photos,
if you wish, for larger versions.
Samara & Sue,
the Kitchen Honchos
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Pûpû Table
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Alana & Jonathan,
the Grill Team
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Alana with fixins' for Sue's Gazpacho
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The
Menu
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Lots of Good Eating
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Flower Bouquet
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Sue is one of the most generous
people I know. She could very well keep this special day with
her girls and son-in-law to herself, but no, she shares it with me,
their godmother. That really should be written:
GODmother. God was darn serious about the whole thing. I
had no idea how serious at the time we accepted our GODparenthood.
It was only when Wayne departed so unexpectedly, leaving Sue a young
widow, did I have an inkling that it was all part of The Grand
Plan. I cannot adequately describe how
proud I am of the strength, the character, and the devotion that Sue
has instilled in Samara and Alana. They are loving, caring,
and decent human beings, who grace this Earth with their presence
and their beauty, inner and outer. They are good people, who
are fun to be with and funny, too. "Always
a godmother, never a god."
~ Author Unknown So
the godkids fête us, mother and godmother. Because as Napoleon Bonaparte said, "The
future destiny of the child is always the work of the mother,"
on this day, I join them in fêting Sue and honoring her
admirable motherhood. With respect, I salute her every
day, but especially, today. See
the smiles below. Not a fake one in the bunch. That's
genuine happiness shining through:
Jonathan & Samara
(Godson-in-law and Goddaughter)
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Sue
(Mother of Goddaughters,
Godsister)
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Alana
(Goddaughter)
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Aunty D
(Godmother)
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Our `Ohana
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Uncle T
(Godfather)
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Sisters
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Mother & Daughters
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Mother's Day Flowers
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Again, click on the
photos for enlargements, if you wish. We
gathered around the table like an old-fashioned family. The
conversation was lively. We are a bunch of movie goers,
Disneyphiles, and reality TV -- Survivor and The Bachelor --
viewers, so there's a lot to talk about besides catching up on our
lives. I highly recommended PBS' Frontier House, which, last
week, kept us riveted although we watched only the second half of
the series. Alana has also watched only some of the episodes and
shared our opinion that it was exceptional TV. "Keep
an eye on the listings and watch it, if you can, " I urged.
"PBS should be repeating the series again soon." The
conversation drifted back to Alana, who earlier broke the great news
that she has just got a new job as a biologist at prestigious
Scripps Institute. She's coming up in the world. Samara
and Jonathan shared their Disney World vacation pictures with
us. They had a blast. Although they just celebrated their
third anniversary, they were mistaken over and over for
honeymooners. That's a good aura. They also caught us up on
Aunty Pat (Sue's sister), who lives in Florida. Sue
told us about her new job, and she seems happy with it. She is
surrounded with books, and like me, she is a bibliophile.
Things seems to be working out just fine. Everything in its
own time. The backyard got a
little too warm, and we moved into the air-conditioned indoors. The
Lakers are playing, and flipping channels, Alana lands on PBS's
Frontier House. Synchronicity
strikes! The first episode is just being telecasted, and we
all find a spot in the living room and settle in. DH
and I had missed seeing the first few episodes, and so we welcomed
the chance to watch them. Sue, Jonathan and Samara were watching all
of it for the first time -- from start to finish. We were as
riveted watching the latter episodes the second time as we were, the
first time. Frontier
House is excellent TV. It demonstrates the profound truth that
"Productivity builds morale." Those were happy,
wholesome kids out there in the wilderness. When they returned to
the 21st century, they were bored. And, because it underscores the
importance and interdependence of family and community, I was
particularly happy to watch it in its entirety with our family as a
family. Highlighting
the benefits of simplicity, resourcefulness, and not wasting,
Frontier House is my kind of TV. Just as those early 1883
Montana settlers did, our `ohana has relied on the love and confidence and support
we have for each other to get us through the hardest moments of our
lives -- we have had some pretty
tough moments -- and have sweetened every victory -- and there have
been a number of victories -- with our Aloha for one another. So
this card and its sentiments were touchingly meaningful to me.
Words mean a lot to me, and these were heart words. Thank you,
GODkids for the perfect card. It says it all:
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When
a family shares a special love the way our family
does,
there's a
sense of happiness and caring, too,
There's
a feeling of togetherness -- whether near or far apart --
and remembrance of each other all year through...
And
there's a special place within the heart for an aunt as dear
as you,
when a
family share a love the way we do.
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Raised with tenderness, affection and
love, Samara and Alana are wonderful daughters -- and now, we also
have a son, just as wonderful: Jonathan. He fits in well
and is also a good, warm-hearted person. His sweetness reminds
me of DH's. Most of all, he adores Samara. And that makes us
very happy.
Today, seeing three children -- now
adults -- celebrating motherhood on Mother's Day, I am encouraged. I
am overjoyed that we hug and kiss, coming and going. That kind of demonstration of heartfelt, genuine love and affection
they show their mother, DH and me can only come from cherished
children, no matter how old. Our
GODkids' outpouring of affection
and appreciation touches me on a very deep level. They are
priceless treasures to me. I have been enormously blessed with
their presence in my life. God knew what he was doing.
He made sure they came into my life. ~~~
When we got home to our little
family, we made our calls to our own mothers in Hawai`i. We,
too, have been blessed with mothers who cared and loved us.
God willing, they will be with us for a long time. I am hoping
both will come to visit us and tarry awhile. We
shared our respective days with each other, and we hear the joy in
their voices. We may be two thousand miles apart, but for
those moments, we are together, heart and soul. They've
both received our floral bouquets of long-distance love bouquets
with "Mainland" flowers, including peonies, narcissus, and
liatrus. Our hugs and kisses in
the form of flowers.
Mother's
Day Link Page
"Life is a Gift."
Me ke
Aloha,
Author
Unknown
"The
only gift is a portion of thyself..."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
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