Greetings!
I just heard from my big sister Sandy
who lives in Kona by email.
She had looked for the June entries on
this site's index page. Finding none, she wondered if, perhaps, she
was simply not able to access them. Nothing's wrong with her
computer.
I'll explain my absence:
I love "homemade":
Homemade
soup. Homemade
dinners. Homemade pizza. Homemade salad
dressings. Homemade pies. Homemade
baked goods. Homemade afghans. Homemade bread. Homemade scarves.
Homemade sweaters. Homemade cards. Homemade
sugar scrubs. Homemade
bath balms.
I embrace the thought
that the best
gifts are homemade, as they come from the heart, and they warm
the heart. They carry their makers' energy -- Hawaiians call it mana
-- and Aloha.
Homemade gifts have
heart and soul.
"The only gift is a portion of
thyself..."
~ Ralph
Waldo Emerson
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My sister Sandy and I grew up during
our parents' hardship days. Back then, our parents were a young
couple raising two little girls and struggling to pay the mortgage
on the house, while investing any extra dollars back into our
entrepreneurial father's farming ventures.
To save money, our Mom even made our
panties out of fabric scraps on her trusty sewing machine
in the basement. There was nothing flimsy or subtle about our
sturdy, cotton panties. Boldly patterned and colorful, I thought
they were far more attractive than the boring store-bought panties.
Mom
Our parents' shoestring budget
allowed for very few "bought" gifts, even for our birthdays.
In hindsight, it was a good thing that I was not showered with
bought gifts, as I developed a keen appreciation for homemade gifts.
As a kid, fried chicken made me
ecstatically happy.
Mom grew up in the country, and her
parents -- Grandfather
Muraichi and Grandmother Miyako -- raised chickens, primarily to
produce eggs for their bakery and restaurant. From time to time, for
family dinners and gatherings, Grandfather Muraichi would slaughter
chickens that were poor egg layers.
Grandfather
Muraichi & Grandmother Miyako
As the oldest daughter,
Mom's job was to help pluck and dress the chickens. She became
sensitized to "that chicken smell" and as an adult, never
again ate chicken.
Unsurprisingly, chicken
dinners were true rarities in our home. Literally,
treats!
Chicken!
Once a year, Mom would
set aside her aversion of "that chicken smell" to
fry up a platter full of scrumptious chicken for my birthday dinner. I felt like I
was on top of the world! Savoring every bite, I thought Mom's
chicken dinner was the best birthday present ever.
Even then, I knew that
it was a thoughtful gift of Aloha from her to me.
Now back to why there
have been no June entries:
Homemade is
time-consuming, and most, if not all, of
this week's free moments have been occupied with the making of a gift for a
friend.
Her name is Gylene.
Gylene, my
Aloha-spirited friend
With
grit and determination, Gy fulfilled a hard-earned goal and I wanted
to commemorate her accomplishment in a personal, country-hearted way. Like me, she grew up in the country, in Wahiawa on the island
of O`ahu.
Instead of only bought
gifts, I also wanted to gift Gy with something that came from my
heart and mind, made with my hands, and infused with my Aloha for
her.
Something homemade. Just like Mom's chicken
dinner.
This is what I
made:
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A
Celebration of the Graduations of Two Sisters from Wahiawa, Hawaii
Very 21st century and techy,
yes, but 100% homemade.
"Life is a Gift."
Me ke
Aloha,
Author
Unknown
"The
only gift is a portion of thyself..."
~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
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