Victorian "High Tea" There is a tradition and history of Tea Societies that span centuries.  Often at these are "High Teas" and some are quite formal. During these Teas, Ladies wore the finest dress attire typical of the era.  Today, some Tea Societies strive for their Ladies to be adorned in fine Victorian dress, hats, and gloves with lace.  These traditions survive in Tea Societies today, including those that feature naked server boys.  Such attire demonstrates a high level of class and deportment consistent of a very elegant affair.   These type of Tea Parties have a high standard of formality and conduct for all tea servers, and create a very proper nostalgic ambience.   Such Teas provide a unique and enjoyably eloquent experience for the Ladies unmatched by other tea gatherings.  The local hostess will determine the level of protocol required to provide such an elegant and formal event.  Male servers at these High Teas will typically be required to wear a tuxedo bowtie and white serving gloves, but completely nude otherwise, as demonstrated in this photograph.   Wrist cuffs, vests, and jackets may be incorporated into the servers' attire, provided they do not fall lower than the waistline as the servers should remain nude from the waist to the knees.    During the first High Tea orchestrated by in the San Francisco Bay Area, the naked slaveboys were required to wear  polished black shoes, socks and bowties, but were naked otherwise.  Some formal Teas may require their servers to wear a small apron.  A company in the U.K., Butlers in the Buff, provide nude butlers to female groups and organizations to provide waiter, butler, food preparer, drink server and other services to assist women in hosting various parties.   Their butlers wear a small leather aprons, bowties, wrist cuffs, but, are otherwise nude.  Their owner reports that sometimes the female guests may, unbeknownst to the butler, mischievously pull the draw strings holding up the apron of a butler thus dropping it to the floor, which is evidently a common trick plaid on the butlers prompting much laughter from the ladies.   The owner alludes that once this happens, the aprons may remain off while the butler continues to fulfill his duties.  Here is their website: Butlers in the Buff     Casual Parties and Other CFNM Events Your local party may have climatic reasons why certain formal dress of the Ladies in impractical, particularly if it is warm.  Also, female attire might not be a focus of the event, depending upon the desire of your hostess or other Ladies attending.    This is all up to the discretion of the Ladies.  In addition, some Tea Parties provide females servers.  These parties require that the female servers wear proper maid outfits; however, this does not imply risque outfits or any over-exposure of the female body but instead they are fully and completely attired.  However, at these same parties, the male servers are, on the other hand, still required to provide services in the nude.  Thus, clothed female servers providing service alongside nude male servers would be the expected protocol at such tea gatherings   The reason for this is a demonstration of a higher level of position and respect for all females, regardless of whether they are attendees or providing service.  A hostess may appropriately desire that the role of tea hostess deputy or banquet captain be relegated to a female server with the naked male tea servers being under her direction. Of course, less formal events will follow less stringent guidelines and will vary insofar as the level of interaction allowed of the male servers.  Some tea events may follow a different flavor, including allowing for a higher level of interaction between the servers and the female attendees.  Regardless, males must always demonstrate politeness, respect and an unquestioning willingness to provide services at the beck and call of the Ladies.  To learn more of such gatherings, we direct you to our Society's discussion forum, which is provided in a link on the home page.     Other Physical Appearance Protocol Regardless of the particular flavor of the Society event, all tea boy servers must maintain impeccable hygiene.  Nothing is more disconcerting than to be served by server who is unkempt.  Following are expected protocol for the physical appearance of our servers: All servers must be clean and have bathed immediately before the event.  Teeth should be brushed and mouthwash used to avoid bad breath.  Smoking is not allowed.  Deodorant and anti-perspirant are an obvious must, and cologne should be used very sparingly, if at all. Hair should be neatly groomed.  If a server's hair is long, it should be pulled back in a ponytail to avoid contact with food or drink. All servers must be cleanly shaven and all mustaches and beards neatly trimmed and groomed. Proper grooming also extends to the genitals.  Our naked servers are typically standing and leaning over tables to serve our Ladies, who are sitting.  This often creates an avoidable presentation of his manhood prominently in their direct line of sight.  When a naked tea boy grooms and trims his pubic hair and removes all hair from his genitals, he demonstrates respect for the women as he recognizes they will often be looking directly at his penis and scrotum in close proximity while he serves them, and he has thus made every attempt to make such viewing experiences as pleasant as possible for them.   It is recommended that prior to arrival of guests, the hostess and/or her banquet captain have all male servers line up nude for inspection whereby any non-conformaties in their appearances can be corrected.  It is advisable that grooming scissors, razors and toiletries and the like are readily available for any needed final primping.