"After eighteen years of watching elephants I still feel a tremendous thrill at witnessing a greeting ceremony…I have no doubt even in my most scientifically rigorous moments that the elephants are experiencing joy when they find each other again" –Cynthia Moss, ‘Elephant Memories’.

 

The leadership of a family herd always falls to an old and respected female called the Matriarch. These herds usually consist of the female’s daughters and granddaughters, and sometimes sisters and their offspring too.

The family works in such a close way that they all take care of each other, to such an extent that a female will often suckle another mother’s young.

The matriarch’s role in the herd is so important that all of the rest of the herd look up to her for everything. If the herd is threatened in any way it will be her that instructs them to run or to form a defensive circle with the calves safely inside. The adults at the front of the circle will spread their ears as much as possible and hold their heads very high to increase their size; this hopefully will intimidate their enemy into leaving them.

If one of the herd becomes separated the group seems to become very anxious and make long distance ‘contact rumbles’ to try to keep in contact. When this lost soul returns to the heard she is greeted with much excitement. There is much trumpeting, urinating, defecating and rumbling. The herd seems to ‘hug’ each other as they stand together in a tight circle with heads and tails held high. This special greeting is only used for close relatives and when two different families meet and greet each other this way, it means that some of the older females are related. They would have grown up together and have kept in touch over many years.

Apart from humans, there are very few animals that have a social structure like this.

Adult Bulls are not allowed to live within the herd, but when one of the females comes into season (oestrus), they can be seen wandering the outskirts of the herd giving male displays of strength and trying to get the female’s attention.

 Males

Once they reach maturity bull elephants spend their time with other bulls or alone. They do not form relationships with each other as the females do but loosely associate with other males. Occasionally, it has been seen that a couple of young males will attach themselves to a very old bull. The white hunters called these old bulls ‘askaris’ which means soldier or guard. The young bulls do benefit immensely by this association with the old tuskers it seems. The bull passes on his ancient knowledge of how to survive adverse conditions and the younger elephants gain knowledge of how elephant society and politics work.

Male elephants frequently spar, a trial of strength, to establish a hierarchy. It is the bigger and stronger males who will mate with the females and these sparring sessions confirm to the males who is to be respected.

The males do remember each other, as the females do, and do not have to keep fighting every time they meet to re-establish who is who.

In their mid twenties the bulls experience the onset of musth when they begin to challenge each other and they secrete from their temporal glands. They hold their heads high, excrete very strong smelling urine and omit a very low frequency musth rumble. This is the time when the males are ready to mate. Unlike most of the year when the sparring is good-natured musth bulls sometimes fight to the death. As they get older the musth season can last a very long time and become more regular, a great strain on the elephant because during this time he spends much less time feeding.