What is Love ?

What is Love ???

The following article is for the purpose of betterment of our developing society, which is influenced by many cultures. No offence to anyone is intended.

If you are afraid to love a person because of friendship among you and the other, you have two choices, either tell about what you feel and let love take place forever...or hide the feeling under a friendship full of pretensions. 

Sometimes, you have to ask yourself, what would make you more happy?. Love can never be so beautiful without friendship...one leads to another and the process is irreversible...the best of lover is the best of friends.

Love doesn't have to have a happy ending because love doesn't have to end at all...  When you love someone don't expect that person to love you back the same amount, one of you will be ahead of the other one behind it's either you catch up or the other waits...what if someone tells you this, don't believe in courtship it's just a waste of time...if I love a person I'll tell her right away, but for you I'll make an exception, just love me now and I'll court you forever. Never be afraid to fall in love...it may hurt a lot, it may give you aches and pains but if you don't follow your heart in the end you will cry even more for not giving love a chance...

I hope someday you'll see that the one true love you are looking for was the one who set you free. Isn't it funny that we are trying to catch the attention of the one we think we love. We hardly notice that the one we are really looking for was just there, we don't notice them 'till they are in
the arms of someone else... 

Love is like standing in a wet cement, the longer you stay the harder it is to leave...and you can never go without leaving your prints behind... think of this... have you really cared for someone more that you expect? Have you ever tried to love him/her in spite of all the pain, will you keep on loving him/her as he/she whispers someone else's name? True love hears what is not spoken and understands what is not experienced for love doesn't work in the mouth nor the mind ...but in the heart.

 When you love you must not expect anything in return, for if you do you're not loving but investing. If you love you must be prepared to accept the pain for if you expect happiness you're not loving but using.

If I love you because you're my friend, I care for you...and because I care, I love. I don't love you because you are my friend, I love you because I do. It's better to loose your pride with someone you love rather than loose that someone you love with your useless pride... 

I can't choose who I'm gonna love, but I also can't just love who chooses to love me...you can't blame me in choosing to love you as much as I can't blame you for not learning to love me. How can I say goodbye to someone I never had... Why do tears fall for someone who was never mine...why do I miss someone I was never with and I asked why I love someone who's love was never mine. It's hard for two people to love each other when they live in two different worlds...but when this two worlds collide and become one that's what you call "Love"... 

 Don't love a person like a flower, cause a flower dies in season...love them like a river, cause a river flows forever...

The most cruel thing a guy could do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall.  Love may leave your heart like a shattered glass but keep in mind that there's someone who'll be willing to endure the pain of picking up the pieces so you can be whole again.

Love is indefinable. you can only define love once you've felt it. that's my definition of love.

With Luv, Abbas