Love can be great, nice and cool but sometimes, or for some of us, most of the time Love can be awful, painful and deadful...
Here are my answers to 3 main questions... I'm not a pro. but that's what I think.
What is "Love"?
Love is a wonderful feeling shared, most of the time, by 2 different persons.
Let's start by the "normal" way. Basically, A boy falls in love with a girl and
well, dreams bout' her and wish he could be with her all the time. Then one day,
when his courage meter is full, he goes to the girl and "confess" his feelings
towards her. The girl may either say that she shares that feeling or she might say
that he isn't her type of guy(snif!). It can also be the girl who falls in love. :)
Then there's the "non-normal" way. Here's the example. A boy, let's say of 13, walks around with his friend(boy). They chat, laugh etc... Then the boy, let's call him A, says to himself : "God, he is sooo cute!". Yep, I think you understood, A finds out he's gay(ouch!). After that, comes the sadness and confusion. He doesn't know what's goin' on, what did he do to be like that?, what can he do?, is there a remedy?, a treatment?, will I go in hell?, Does god like me? and finally, Sob..sob... I WANNA DIE!!!!!! Arrived at this point, A needs some help. But where do get it? It's practically impossible to find someone to help. And, as most of the time it's the case, all he has to do is to accept himself as he is. He's like that, there's nothing he can do. Of course, this is really really hard. And as it's way too hard, he gives up and kills himself and it's the end. It's the same if it's a girl. Oh, I forgot, A will suffer a lot coz' if he falls in love with a hetero boy...ay! Well, you know what sorts of probs. it can make...
Where to find Love?
Some people can find love on their own but... usually it's love who finds you. It can fall on you at
any time, any second. As I said above, for the heteros it's easier than for the gays. :)
But, sometimes, when love is near you, you can't see it and you miss it. It's really frequent
for people to miss the love of their life just coz' they were too blind to notice it. Usually,
unnoticed love, is the close friend. For gays, it's of the same sex and for the heteros it's the
opposite sex. Let's say you're a boy... so if your close friend is a girl... Better be sure her
feelings for you are not stronger than "Friendship".
How long does Love last?
It depends. If the love is shared, then it will last forever. But if it's not... the longevity won't
be that long. For example, if a boy loves another boy for his physic only then it's no use, they will
break up. Why? Coz' it's not what on the outside that counts but in the inside. Of course, I'm not sayin'
being cute is bad, on the contrary. But don't be fooled by the looks. And sometimes, an ugly boy can aslo
be ugly inside, don't forget that. A girl can have the body of an angel but the soul of a devil, careful.
So, before going further in a relation, you better make sure you know the one you love, really well. :)
Love is the best feeling but also the worst. If you want it to be the best, just make sure, love is and remains on "your" side. =)))