WHAT IS
RIGHT AND WRONG WHEN YOU DEAL WITH THIS PROBLEM?
WHAT IS
RIGHT AND WRONG WHEN YOU DEAL WITH THIS PROBLEM?
★選擇適合自己的對象去愛，比用什麼方式去愛，還重要得多！ ★ 幸福的秘訣，是抓準愛的節奏感。 隨時提醒自己目前的節拍，採穩步伐， 該停時停，該走時走，該進時進，該退時退。 ★ 傾聽內在的聲音，了解對方的感受，愛的節奏， 要靠雙方共同調整、一起掌握。 ★ 幸福，最可貴的部分，是在努力的過程，而不是最後的標的。 ★ 愛，不是犧牲，也不是佔有。愛，其實是成全。 擁有愛情的時候，要讓對方自由； 失去愛情的時候，更要讓愛自由。 ★ 人生，沒有圓滿。是我們寬容的心， 補足了那些缺憾，讓記憶變得圓滿。 ★ 幸福，是心情的感受；而不是婚姻的狀態。 單身有單身的幸福，懂得珍惜自己，就是最大的財富。 ★ 認識一個人，要靠機緣。了解一個人，需要智慧。 了解以後和睦相處，則要靠包容。
After The Blow: Picking
Yourself Up
Just imagine that your fun and loving girlfriend just left you for someone else? Your boyfriend just completed a permanent prank just to say "you are out baby!" Somebody who you think is "the one" is not replying to your message. Feeling sad and blue? Thinking it's the end of the world? Relax, take a deep breath. Put your logical thinking in serious state mode. Think it again.
Breaking up
is hard and it will hurt. No denying to that. Unless you had some sort of major
plays out there. That is different story. Release your feelings. Wet your
pillows or even your dolls (if you have one), scream, lock yourself in your room
BUT never let your anger posses your brain system. When your anger starts to
take count on people, chances that you are hurting yourself with the negative
responses they are giving you. The cut gets deeper eventually and you will fall
into more misery state then you ever were.
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Do you think all your sacrifices and countless phone calls plus sms and hours of talk had already gone down the drain? Well, that is true but there is nothing u can do about it but keep it in your memory and remember the good times you had when you are lonely. But how long do you want to sober on this? Don't you realize that there are "many fishes in the sea" around this world? There are a lot of people out there waiting for you to touch and brighten up their life and there are countless possibility of the outcome and infinite fun.
Done yet? Go on the next
step then. Inject positive attitude in your mind. Positive attitude would bring
bright aura around you and eventually attracts people. All of us know that
memory remains but that is the side-effects of breaking up. Positive attitude
works on people well and by adding a little touch-up, things would be much
better than you had ever imagine. So, seems like you are back in the market.and
believe me that you will be enjoying you life if you do not bother much about
you last relationship. Pat yourself with another successful "Life Experiences
1001" syllabus exam. You made it through and you should be proud of it. It is
just the matter of time, right?
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