If someone decides they just have to say something about you I say take it as a complement. They find you to be important enough to talk about. Let them talk about your great self, all they want. If they decide to say something false about you take this also as a complement, for you are so great a person, the only bad things said about you, are false things.

Life

Lets face it you live you breed you die. That's what life is, we are after all animals. Pretty much everything else we do is to attract the opposite sex. How you look, how you act, what you do for a living, it all adds up to attract certain types of people. But remember you have to spend a lot more time with you than you do with the one (or more) that you find. So be yourself, don't put on a show just to attract someone, that will, one day wake up to the real you and hate it.

Make-up

This is part of the show that some put on. I view this as false advertising. Most women don't need make up to make them pretty. And one day when they wake up next to the man they have deceived and he don't like what he sees these women will be upset that he never really loved them. But she never let him see the real her. Don't hid your true beauty either the interior or exterior kind and you will find a love in truth.

Fat

So many people think being fat is a bad thing. Makes it so much harder to find someone to be with. But I think being overweight is an advantage. Because 20 years later when you wake up next to the man or woman of your dreams and you are fat, they are not going to look at you in total disgust because you are not the trophy they married. Instead they will still look at you with the same love they did 20 years ago. So really it would suck to be skinny. If you want the person you married to feel the same about you, you have to keep up your looks. Go work out and diet all the time. We fat people just got it a hell of a lot better.