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Motherhood
February 15th, 1999
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After a month of rest, Margie took many beautiful pictures of her son
and family photos to share with everyone. Ho Yin is a well
behaved baby, he was breast feed the day he was born but it is very
tiring so Margie switched to baby formulas after 2 weeks of
breast feeding.
‘Ho Yin, he looks exactly like his father! Only his chin resembles a
bit of me.' Although the baby looks more like her husband,
Margie is not the least bit jealous. Though ultrasound, Margie knew she
was carrying a baby boy before Ho Yin was born. ‘I am not
very concern whether my first child is a boy or girl because I plan on
having another baby next year.' In having children, Margie feels
no pressure at all, in fact she is loved and spoiled by her husband and
family. ‘My brother and I are very close in age, so we have
always been close. When I was pregnant, he was very excited and
concerned for me.' Actually, Margie grew up in a family of
doctors, beside her brothers, her father is also doctor who practice
Western medicine.
Margie being pregnant was indeed big news for the Tsang family, they
held meetings discussing the methods of giving birth and
which would be the most comfortable way. ‘My brother's girlfriend is a
gynecologist, so she is very knowledgeable about what pregnant women
goes through in labor. I have chosen to give natural birth because I‘m
afraid of surgery. I went in for a minor surgery last year to have my
appendix removed and the wound was very sharp after the anesthetic went
away. Another reason is I want to be conscious when my baby is born, I
do not want to miss the opportunity in seeing his birth.
Ho Yin was very comfortable in his mother's womb, and thus arrived a few
days later than his Dec. 29 th due date. ‘I was told by many people that
I should have my baby on the 1st of January because it would be very
glorious to give birth to the year's first baby. It did not mattered to
me when the baby was born as long as he is healthy.' However, the soon
to be aunts and uncles were getting very impatient. ‘On Dec. 31th, my
brothers and sisters all came over to my place to have a fondue party.
They said they want to make a lot of noise so the baby would come out
because he is too comfortable in there.' That night, the baby was indeed
awaken by all the noise and Margie was brought to the hospital at 3 in
the morning.
Margie gave birth in the most loving and comfortable surrounding. ‘My
brother's girlfriend went into the delivery room with me and my
husband recorded the process on a camcorder. However, he only recorded
my facial expressions and not the most important moment. I think it's
better this way, at least it is easier on him. He later told me that he
was actually very scared.' Once the baby was born Margie forgot about
all the pain she went through. ‘It's like I'm in a dream. Ho Yin has
been born a month already and I still cannot accept the fact that I gave
birth to a child. It's all very magical, how come I became pregnant with
a baby.... he is produced by my husband and I.... he is my child.....'
The birth of the baby has changed Margie's lifestyle. She know
understands the greatest of parent hood. ‘The baby became hungry
very quickly when he was fed breast milk. Despite all the reporters in
the hospital, I had to make many trips to the infant ward each
day to feed him. It is a lie if I say its not bothersome. Although
everyone was very nice to me at the hospital, I did not want to
disturb other patients, that's why I opted to leave the hospital early.'
Ho Yin's arrival not only brought happiness to the family, is also
changed Margie's personality. ‘Before I was a person who would not
tolerate bothersome matters, now I am sensitive to Ho Yin's very
moment.' Even Ho Yin's dad does not have the same kind of
authority. ‘Although I have always put in my best effort, I was never
ambitious enough towards my career. Now that Ho Yin is here, I
cannot leave him behind even more.' When Ho Yin sleeps, Margie also
takes the opportunity to rest. ‘My close friends have been
wanting to visit me, but I am very honest by turning them down. I tell
them they do not have to be polite since we have know each
other for so long, let me get some more rest and there would be many
opportunities to meet.' Therefore, this is the first time Ho Yin
officially meets with everyone.
- ~ Original source scanned by Sai Wong ~
~ Translated by Jen ~
Source:
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page2,
page3
February 1st, 1999
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Last night was Margie's son ªL ¯E ½å one month old birthday. To celebrate, Margie and husband Stephen Lam held a birthday party
for their little darling at the Golden Harbour Yacht Club. Attendants were mainly close family and friends including Anita Mui, James
Wong, Yammie Lam, Chu Wai San, and Sandra Ng.
Thought Margie wanted it to be a quiet celebration, many reporters heard the scoop and showed up at the party. Unable to avoid the
media, Margie fulfilled the reporters wishes and agreed to an interview during the dinner party.
Margie said that since leaving the hospital she has been taking care of the baby everyday, she doesn't even have time to do exercise
to lose weight. She says that she really feels a strong sense of motherly love towards her son, even her husband could not believe
that she can handle taking care of the baby all by herself. She would not even let the maids give her any help.
Reporter: So has your husband given you any help?
Margie: Not in terms of actual physical help, but I am already very touched by his emotional support. Actually I have babysit for my
sister before, so I'm quite good at caring for babies.
Reporter: You've been working so hard lately, how much weight have you lost so far?
Margie: I've been so busy, I don't even have time to weigh myself. Although taking care of the baby is alot of hard work, it is worth it
everytime I see my baby smile at me. I just forget about any tireness I feel!
Anita brought two gifts last night, one was a baby blanket and the other was jewelery for the baby. She hopes Ho Yin will grow up to
be kind and considerate to his parents.
- ~Translated by Jen~
Source:
Apple Daily News
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On Margie's son ªL ¯E ½å (Lam Ho Yin) month old birthday, Mr. and Mrs. Lam threw a birthday bash for their darling and invited
friends and family to celebrate.
Margie's good friends the "Dragon Girls" Anita Mui, Yammie Lam, and Sandra Ng all came to bring wishes to the baby boy who
looks exactly like his father. All the girls fought to hold the baby.
Holding the baby in her arms, Yammie says it feels like holding a little puppy. Because she had to take care of the baby, Margie
has not been able to sleep well at night in the past month. She has not even started to diet and already she is losing weight. She
says that caring for the baby is alot of work, she hopes that he will not be bad when he grows up. Margie's husband is greatful for his
wife and promises to work harder to earn more money.
- ~Translated by Jen~
Source:
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